Question for both men and women about giving/getting head?

Don't forget to consider that what they record for video is recorded because it looks good. It isn't always what feels best.

Just because they do things a certain way in videos doesn't make it the right way. In fact, I wonder how many people think that is how sex is supposed to be in order to be considered good.

If people did what really feels good in front of the camera, it probably wouldn't be as visually interesting because the camera wouldn't be able to get a good angle to catch the action - knowwhatimean?

So anyways, my advice is to vary your style on occasion, pay attention to his response, and take mental notes when you do things he likes. Doing everything one way all the time is fine if it is good, but you might be missing out on different kinds of joy.

WHY would you give a guy a bj and not use your lips?? Lips are a very important part of a blwjob!!! Use your lips as much as possible, anyone who tells you otherwise, doesn't know WTF their talkin about. And as far as the guy who said it was the best he ever got, there's a 90% chance that was the first time he's ever gotten blown. So I wouldn't go by what he says.

Not using your lips, defeats the purpose of giving head in the first place. It's like Dr. Kavorkian performing the Heimlich manuever....it doesn't make any sense.

I tend to give head anyway I choose! In other words, I change up my techniques and the way I do it that way my man doesn't have a clue how I'm going to do it each time. It creates an element of mystery and surprise and in my experience men enjoy variety more than the same thing all the time.

Best thing to do is experiment, his reactions will tell you everything you need to know :)

I do it the way the girls in the porn movies do, but i try VERY hard not to allow my teeth to ever touch unless i'm trying to tease him by lightly grazing the tip with my teeth. Teeth can work to your advantage as long as you are GENTLE..But i don't like trying to suck my lips over my teeth while giving head it's annoying and hard to do when your focusing on tounge and suction.

I haven't exactly watched myself do this, so I guess it'd be like you - with the lips kind on over the teeth. Lots of licking and stuff too. Like a lollipop. Mmmmm.

As for the men, I'm sure they just like getting it - period!

I alternate techniques and watch his reaction. Really, you can't be doing anything too wrong if the last guy you did it with enjoyed it. ;-) I imagine every guy has their own personal preference in the matter.

The key is, did you swallow? If you swallow then he will tell you that you did a great job every time.

And never try to kiss him afterwards either. That's a gay act by proxy for a man.

I've only had it the other way. Can I get a sample?

why not try it both ways on him and ask him which way he likes it better

sounds right girl.