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If you have to choice between?

Having a big bank account & having the ability to do anything you wanted to in life .but you didn't have a family or special person to share your life with. or be married to the perfect man that treated you right & made you happy . but only made enough money to pay the bills & put food on the table which one would you pick & why? I would pick have my family. money good but can't buy you love.

& you can't put a price tag on those smiling kids.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    im with you on this one i would want my family over anything in life cause with out them well im just not myself and i would not be the women i am today without them money is not everything !!!!!

  • Woka
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I met and married the young guy who earned just enough to put food on the table, and then he went into business for himself and with lots of grace became a very successful business man, who does a lot more than just put food on the table. By the way the kids hardly ever smile hehehehe.

    Source(s): So I am fortunate I got true love with no money and then the success followed, let me just tell you it is amazing how many women have found him attractive since his bank balance increased, they were never around when he was just a ice cream delivery guy.
  • 1 decade ago

    I would choose family. What's the point of having all the money in the world, then end up having to die alone. or be there when you get sick to take care of you..Meaning those who genuinely love you. Money can't buy Family and Friends that truly love you. But it can buy artificial love, friends, and people who want to claim you as family. I wouldn't want that headache of trying to figure out everyday who really loves me and who's around me only b/c i have money. I think thats tormenting...But a lot of people choose to live like that. But i refuse to.

  • Honey
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I don't believe in perfect men. I would marry the guy who only made enough money to pay the bills & put food on the table. At least he cares enough about himself to take care of himself and don't expect me to do it. It hardens my heart when I see an adult not doing for themselves and depending on another another person except for illness or other circumstance, such as caring for young children. I've taken care of myself all of my adult life so I wouldn't need anything else from this guy but love, support, and respect.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well I learn something about women

    no money no honey

    some women claim is not about money but they lie

    money can't buy your love because love is an illusion

    but money can buy everything

    I remember in 2008 I have a funny drunk party

    for 100 dollars I make a girl bark like a dog that was pretty funny

    people decide how much they worth

  • 1 decade ago

    I have sacrificed a lot in my young life and If I would've had the choice I still would've done the same. I love my family and even though we might struggle from time to time the love that keeps us together makes me so happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    i would choose family, if you would have asked me before my daughter was born i woulda taken the money, but i couldnt imagine my life with out my daughter, and me and the wife are working for another little baby head

  • 1 decade ago

    Well I would have my cake and eat it too! I would have the large bank account and hire people to love me!

  • 1 decade ago

    Love, of course. Things just aren't as fun when you're alone.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You're right, those kids have cost me a bloody fortune already.

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