old flame - what should I do?

Just be aware some women use the words sweetheart and type xx's without reading anything into it. It maybe you have read into it more because as you have admitted you would like to see her, that fact she hasn't made any arrangements could be she doesn't want to offend you and tell you straight that she has no intention too or it could be after 20 years she's alittle weary she no longer really knows you!

Ask yourself why she was an ex? And why even though complicated you are still with the person your are with and which of the two means more to you??

And just to add its very easy to get carried away when typing to someone, most would flirt alot more than they would in person so just be aware she may just be craving some attention and what you have already got may not be worth that risk. Until you decide remember not to leave anything on your computer!

If the relationship you're in is complicated and going nowhere - why not! Meet her. But if your relationship IS going somewhere even though it's complicated, think twice. You don't want to make a mistake you'll maybe regret afterwards.

The current relationship is not complicated it is you who is making it complicated. Men, men, men! It doesn't matter what we advise you, it seems you like the idea of meeting her. If u have been sending her messages what is wrong with you meeting her?

Do not meet her without telling your girlfriend :S

psh men.

I say...go for it.