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Is it wrong to love the one your with and still want to have sex with others when you have tried to talk about?
I have been married for over 15 years.The spice is gone, for that matter anything physical is gone.I have tried again and again to talk about it , and even tried other remedies.While I am frustrated,I don't want to leave.Is it wrong to look for a NSA thing outside the relationship?
I appreciate the honesty.Going to share my efforts here.I have asked about couples counseling, Tried to attempt different things in the bedroom,spoken to my doctor,met him at the door with a teddy and a drink.Asked about fantasies.Offered to act them out.2 years without is more than a little patience.The part of me that knows that it would be wrong is beginning to wonder what it would hurt.Any other suggestions besides what Ive tried would be awesome..L
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You need to find what fueled the fire..You need to ignite that spark.
If your husband isn't interested in a physical relationship, and refuses to talk about it, I am truly sorry.
I have been married more than 15 years and my wife and I are still passionate and in love, as if we were newlyweds. It wasn't always that way. It does take some commitment and discussions about things we saw and still see in our relationship. I do know that you, as a woman, need that passion to feel 'complete'. I wish you luck and I hope you and your husband can recreate that spark.
- 1 decade ago
I think you already know the answer to this one. If you want to break your marriage vows or act in a way that effectively gives your wife grounds to end you marriage, then why not just get out now
Source(s): personal experience - Anonymous1 decade ago
yes it is. marriage is a bond saying you will only be with that one person no matter what. if you want to spice it up then try different things in bed.
