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Man problems! Ladies - help please!?

I am 34 years old and I'm attracted to guy who is 25. My attraction isn't based on anything specific but more on how I feel when I'm around him. I'm not sure on whether or not he likes me but is there too much of an age gap between us for it to go anywhere? We work together, I have two children and have been married twice. He is single with no children and doen't really plan on having any in the future. I do not want anymore children either but where does that leave the fact that I already do have kids? I come as a package and I'm worried that he is too young to cope with that package.

Do I pursue this attraction I feel for him, or do I leave it alone and back off?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I don't see why the age gap would be an issue, My partner and I nearly have a 7 year age gap but it suits us just fine (He's slightly childish and I'm an old head on young shoulders, things have worked out perfectly between us as far as im concerned.)

    If you really are keen, why not find someone to babysit and ask if he'd maybe like to go for drink sometime. But, by all means DO NOT get drunk - you already said you don't want any more babies and these things can happen!

    If he doesn't seem interested, don't beat yourself up over it. Nothing lost, nothing gained.

    The right person is out there for you, they might come along when you're least expecting it :) Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    back off. Let him have some fresh meat instead of something washed up.

  • Brooke
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you have that strong of feelings for him, go for it.

    What do you have to loose?

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him about and see what he tells you.

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