I have a question.............?

this would never happen. I'm straight and as I've told my hubby and other guys who tend to have this debate there is absolutely no chance that I'm going to wake up one morning and say hey honey I feel like being a lesbian, Not going to happen, A truly straight person would never date another person of the same sex. they might be very close friends but nothing in the sex department would go on.I'd sooner say that Jane was bi and never really acknowledged it because she always had a man in her life that she was compatible with until caroline came along.

Labels, when it comes down to it, are just what society sees in people. So... Jane might be a lesbian or she could be bisexual or pansexual or straight and Caroline could be an exception. That's something only she would know. Unfortunately, society would label her a lesbian because she is with a girl. Hopefully that helps.

To be honest there is never a reason for labels... The big question is does Jane think she is a lesbian or not? If she doesn't know that's ok too... It's her life to live and love as she wants no matter the "title." "Titles" seem to get in the way...

Of course she is just a straight girl dating another person who just happens to be female!

No way that could be considered lesbian At all.

That describes my current relationship, and I don't think it matters, labels aren't necessary, and they aren't correct either.

Just to illustrate, the below link is to what would be considered quite a limited test of sexuality, take it, it will show you how sexuality is more of a spectrum than anything else, and that it is certainly not limited to two or three boxes.

http://kleingridonline.com/

she isnt technically a lesbian... Caroline seems to be what they call an "exception"... that is all she will ever be

She happens to be dating someone who is female. ^^ I love when that happens.

sound to me like that bitc^ got turned out. that was her friends plan the whole time