what else could she be hiding from me?

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ok so ive been having a long term relationship with this girl for 2 years and i just recently move up to illinois from georgia to be with her
but ever since i got here shes been hiding things from me and lieing to me
last night she told me she was going to see her xbf little niece and when she got home i asked her why she smelled like smoke she said that they met at her friend erics house and they all smoke 
so ok i brushed it off no big deal
so today at school i see eric and i ask him if my girlfriend was at his house last night he said no
i asked are you sure and he said yeah
im just really sick of being lied too
and everytime i confront her about lieing to me she pulls a guilt trip and makes me feel like ****
i just dont know what to do any more

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

She could be hiding anything, adopted babies, drug and alcohol problems/issues, infidelity, point is, a relationship is based mainly on trust, if you dont have any or cant see yourself having any then you might as well end it now, have a chat, see if anything changes, if not then bin her

Rock1nit · Answer

Leave her, she's obviously lying and using you. You can't have a stable or good relationship when one of you is constantly lying to the other. Not to assume the worst, but she might be cheating on you.

Somethingtotry · Answer

It sounds like to me that she has another life going on that doesn't include you. Follow her or hire a detective to do so. You need to know whether or not you're wasting your time and is sure sounds like you are.

? · Answer

If she is lying to you now, she is not going to stop. You had better let her go and tell her why. Find someone who will respect you enough not to lie to you. Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

leave her shes a lier

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