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How do I get over my ex gf?

I know im only 14 but this is driving me crazy so please help me

we were going out for about a year until she dumped me a week ago and i just cant get her out of my head. I see her at school everyday but she never talks to me of looks at me anymore. and everytime i look at her i think of all the good times we had which is y i cant get over her so please help

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I know its really hard atm and it will take some time, but try and keep busy doing other things like hanging out with friends, doing sport or anything else you can think of! I know exactly how you feel, but it will eventually get better!

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Immediately I remembered who I thought at the time was my first love (when I started reading your post). Unfortunately you have already had a girlfriend at a young age, yet the best advice I can offer you is to concentrate more on your education, than on girls. There is a phrase "boys and books don't mix," well the same can go concerning girls. Do you have a church/ministry that you attend? I encourage you to stay associated with positive influences who will continue to encourage you, and who will help you grow spiritually, and in every way. You will be very gald that you did in the long run, and will not have to be hurt by situations that are only temporary. Stay strong...God has a purpose for you and eventually you will have a lady in your life who will not hurt you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Heartbreak sucks. Bad. But there ARE other girls. & there is someone absolutely perfect & meant for you out there. But if you kill yourself over this one (obviously) stupid girl, how will you 2 ever meet? This breakup just made you 1 girl closer to finding 'the one'. Trust me, suicide is NOT the answer. Suicide is pretty selfish. You're leaving behind the ones that love you & care for you. & no-one says you & your ex won't get back together, but don't bug her about it. Just have fun & live your life like you're not hurting inside. Don't let her see you hurting, it makes it easier for her to move on. Have fun with your friends, talk to other girls, be as active as possible, & live your life to the fullest! This breakup will hurt for awhile, but in the end this will all be worth it! Hang in there. The sky's always the darkest before the sun rises & there will always be a light at the end of the tunnel (:

    Source(s): Been there
  • 1 decade ago

    You should try to get a hobby or join any school sports or join any school clubs or organizations. Start hanging out with your friends, maybe your friends can help you out too. If she ignores you, then ignore her as well. You are still young and there is definitely some girl waiting for you. So keep your eyes open and look around you. Good luck !

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  • 1 decade ago

    A bullet to the brain lol.

  • 1 decade ago

    dude just get over her, than shell go after you. nuff said

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