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Relationship issues, please help?
My girlfriend and I, dating about 2 years or so now, We were very very close, throughout the whole span of our dating, I heard things like "She cheated on you" Rumors and such.
Well, recently, she told me that she thinks we were drifting apart. I agreed, So we made a plan to see each other more often. Today she said we don't have trust in our relationship, so I asked her, "Be honest, Did you cheat on me?" And she responds, "Yes, I did. I only did it because we don't see each other that often, I'm sorry please don't end this" This...just tore my heart apart. I feel like, I failed her, and I just wanna leave her. But I don't want to lose her...Yahoo Answers, What the hell should I do???
5 Answers
- <3Lv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
once a cheater always a cheater
if she really cared about you she would have NEVER cheated in the first place
the truth is at the beginning or during the middle (which ever) she stopped truly caring about you
as you can see by "were drifting apart"
RED FLAG
she isn't as into you as she once was
even though she is being honest now
she might just be doing that to give you a reason to leave her
hinthint
- 1 decade ago
sorry that sucks she cheated...i would be so furious. how old are you? There is no way thought that you failed her. definatly not. I feel like she is using the "we were drifting apart" and "we didnt see eachother that often" and an excuse. She feels guilty for what she's done. Its good she admitted it...but cheating in my opinion is just unforgivable. I would have a hard time every letting that go..and fully trusting her again I i were you. Its not something that can and should be swept under the rug. She could have talked to you if she was feeling distant..but she ran to another guy. so shady. Only you know in your heart what you want to do...2 years of a good relationship is hard to throw away...but will she do it again? will you be able to recover from it? I wish you the besttttttt. I hope if you do move on you find a girl that would never cheat on you...and it will be an even better relationship. :)
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
You didn't fail her; she knew what she was doing and presumably no-one held a gun to her head. This is her issue, don't make it yours. You can decide to forgive her and move on but it's not going to be easy. Maybe you need to set specific days that you see each other and check with each other more often how the relationship is going so that it doesn't happen again.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
All relationships will have at some time some problems.
To continue the relationship it is good if both parties can discuss the
issue and both have to give in.
It will not help if only 1 person gives in, as the other person might feel
superior after that.
Both parties have to give in to work to a solution.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
You failed her? Please. It was her that f*cked it up. She know dam well what she was doing, and is only using you as the excuse for it. If it were me, I wouldn't stand it. But, you should consider how much you trust her, how much you love her, and if you can see each other getting through this.
Hope I helped, g'luck =)
