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Should I forget married men?

It seems that all the men I've met on Craig's List are 80% married straight men. The others are gay men cheating on their partners. I thougt Men seeking Men meant gay single men only apply. I guess I was wrong. Then when they send you their pics, it's only of their front or backside with no face.(in case the wife should catch me). Of course I have met some nice guys that are single ( 1 out of 100) but then they just want the one night stand. Should maybe I put out my own ad and ask for what I'm seeking?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dude, it's cragslist. What do you really expect?

    If you want to meet someone to date, use a reputable dating site. Craigslist is for hooking up, not meeting the love of your life.

  • 1 decade ago

    How were you wrong in assuming men seeking mean meant "men seeking men"? How about during your emails and conversations prior to meeting you ask them if they are married? Suggest meeting them at their house (even though I would meet in a public place) just to gauge their reaction?

    You can try your own ad but you might still find the same. Craigslist is NOT a good dating source. It more know for sexual encounters regardless of how the ad may sound.

    PS I just re-read, I see you assumed men 4 men was single-only. Not on CL! Try Match or Plenty of Fish.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should put out your own ad of what you want. Because they are putting out there own ad of what they are looking for. And it depends on what section you are looking at. If you are in the casual encounter section you will only find a one night stand type of person. Try the relationship section. And just because a man is looking for man that doesn't mean he doesn't have another life. You need to get to know someone, and don't beat around the bush say what you want and how you want things in your life. Take charge of you. Good luck.

  • Erika
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    He replaced into utilising you for sex, even as his spouse wasn't round, she's his spouse. the lady he loves, gave up plenty for and married. extra effective get out of this even as you may. adult adult males not often contain emotions even as it is composed of sex and with suggestions from the sounds of it you've been his distraction. He gained't go away his spouse for you, even as they have complications he will come back...for a shoulder to cry on and sex, thats it. If some thing you're and could be his rebound. Sorry, notwithstanding the truth hurts. under no circumstances get entangled with a married guy.

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  • Mary
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I dont even come from the states and ive heard the reputation that site has and its not good.

    I would try to find a reputable site even if you have to pay to join if youre serious about meeting someone but my experience of dating sites is that its full of people just looking for a good time and most are lying. sorry

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I thought Craigslist was just for hook-ups anyway, not for serious relationships. For that you need to go to a bar.....lol..jk

  • 1 decade ago

    You should get away from CL first of all...

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