How will you know if your partner is fading?

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I've been living with my partner for 8 months now, and i can say  were both happy together. Guess it's because of our new born son who would always be the reason for his big smile on his face,. 

But I don't understand what is it with me now, i feel strange.. its like somethings changed about him, hes no longer sweet, he doesnt say i love you, and I feel he grew cold not even with kisses and hmmn... (***)

Is it me? or is it him.
Im not pretty sure if hes fading but i just can t explain it..its weird.

Anonymous · Answer

your trying to say the flame is going out.

i would plan a series of actions 

1 - try and subtly spice things up weather it be doing something together or in the bedroom. this used to make me and some of my ex gf's closer.

2 - start something new, dance lessons anything a new common interest something to talk about.

3 - talk to each other being stuck in a boring relationship is going to end up falling apart and the longer it goes on the worse it'll be.find out whats going on and if he feels the same

4 - stay positive and calm. he could be stressed he could be feeling commitment maybe you could too. if your close enough then being brutaly honest wont be a problem.

gl x

? · Answer

nothing isnt fading. your feeling probably numb having a baby is a big thing. have you been tested for prenatal blues they can come on after the baby a few month after and hes attention is focus now on this tiny little thing that you both made. hes probably be wildered  and not noticing what hes doing it even could be an bit nof shock

lalaloopsy · Answer

you're with him for 8 months and you guys have a baby. its huge to absorb. 
you guys can try spending time alone without the baby and with no baby discussion?
and try spending sme time apart. like visit friends for a weekend? alwaays helps.

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How will you know if your partner is fading?

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