If I would have married a WHITE straight man in the first place, would all this drama been avoided?

I'm a 23 year old straight white female and 8 weeks pregnant with my third child. My husband Andrew and I have been together for 2 years, we just got married in July and I'm pregnant with his baby. I don't care what anyone says about my man. I love him with all my heart. I also have a 7 year old son and a 5 year old daughter. My son and daughter have different fathers. Omar is a straight black male and Justin is a bisexual white male. Omar is my son's father and Justin is my daughter's father. Even though they have jobs, they spend time with their kids and they make sure they help me out with food, clothes, money and whatever else my son and daughter needs....I can't stand them and Andrew can't stand them either. Omar broke my heart when he left me just because his family had a problem with me being white and him being black. Omar wasn't man enough to handle the pressure and he kept listening to his stupid bitter mother telling him that white women are out to steal the very few decent black men out there who aren't on drugs or in jail. I thought things would easy when I fell in love with Justin, being that we are both white. But it wasn't the case. Justin and I broke up on good terms BUT I was disgusted when he started dating a guy some time afterwards. I'm not homophobic, he admitted he was bi before we got together. In fact, my favorite hair stylist is a feminine gay guy and Justin screwed him a few times but nothing serious. So, my stylist hooked Justin up with me. It didn't work out. Now, I have a child by two stupid idiots. My heart was broken but now that I have Andrew, I feel happy again.

Last Friday Omar and Justin came to my house around the same time to pick up the kids. First thing they did while I was packing my son and daughters backpacks was complain about the mess in my apartment. Calling me nasty and saying it stinks in my house. I just ignored them because I'm sick of arguing with them. But Andrew came out of the bedroom minding his own business going in the kitchen to get something to drink. Justin had the nerve to get mad because Andrew was only wearing his boxers and he don't think a man should be walking around his daughter like that. I think Justin is jealous because he wants to suck Andrew's d*ck and he can't. Andrew and Justin had an argument and it would have got physical if Omar didn't step in between. But Omar said that Justin has a point. I just told them both to take the kids and get out of my house. Who the hell do Omar and Justin think they are? I don't recall saying the words I DO to neither one of them bastards! ANDREW is my husband NOT them. Just because I have kids with them, does Omar and Justin have any right to tell me how to run my house? I wish I can strip them of their daddy titles and give them to my husband. I tried to not be prejudiced but I've been warned about dating black men and bisexual men. What should I do?