Asking My Dr. For New B/P & Migraine Meds? Beta Blockers.?

I am currently on the beta blocker Lopressor 25mg once a day for high blood pressure.

I am on Depakote for migraine prevention.

Both meds have a history of causing weight gain and I, sadly, am no exception.

Since September I have gained close to 30 pounds.

All I want to do is sleep. I can sleep for 14 hours at a time. Wake up, eat and go back to sleep. I'm usually even too tired to do my nightly bath routine.

( I mean like shaving & stuff that takes so long but is just for aethstetics I'm still washing)

My sex life with my husband is non-existant.

And perhaps one of the most disturbing side effects is the swelling of my legs! They are so swollen that I can push on them and they are "squishy" like Play-Doh! It actually leaves an impression!

My questions are:

1.) Is anyone else having this problem?

2.) Are there any other meds that I could ask about switching to that some of you have had success with?

Thanks!