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Roman catholic sacraments - age and order? ?

I have a dispute with my friend. We are both roman catholic. I say the order went like this. 1 baptism. 2. Confession aged 7 just before First Holy Communion. 3. First holy communion aged 7. 4. Confirmation She says 1. Baptism. 2. Confirmation aged 7 just before holy communion. 3. First Holy Communion. 4. First confession aged 14.

Can someone please shed light. We have searched Internet but find we are both right. Could there be a difference between RC churches? I know I took my first confession at 7 but she says she took hers at 14.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Not every one receives the Sacraments at the same time or in the same order.

    Most cradle Catholics brought up in the U.S. received their Sacraments like this.

    1. Baptism (a few weeks after birth)

    2. Reconciliation (2nd grade)

    3. Eucharist (2nd grade)

    4. Confirmation (10th grade)

    An unbaptized adult joining the church at age 50 would receive their Sacraments like this:

    1. Baptism (at the Easter Vigil Mass)

    2. Confirmation (at the Easter Vigil Mass)

    3. Eucharist (at the Easter Vigil Mass)

    4. Reconciliation (a few weeks later)

    With love in Christ.

  • fahner
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    7 Sacraments In Order

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    7 Catholic Sacraments

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends on the Bishop. City or rural makes a difference, too.

    The sacraments can be grouped into three (Catholic, eh) catagories.

    Sacraments of initiation: Baptism, Eucharist, Confirmation

    Sacrametns of healing: Reconciliation, Sacrament of the Sick

    Sacraments of commitment: Holy Orders, Matrimony

    In areas with only only one Bishop and large populations, Confirmation and Baptism may be given to infants. Eucharist is given at the age of reason, typically seven years old. For converts they are all given at the same time. Christians are not baptized again as their prior baptism is valid. (A conditional Baptism may be given if the convert does not recall or does not have Baptismal records)

    Reconciliation is given at the age of reason, typically seven. I suspect your friend just never went to confession between ages seven and fourteen and did not understand what was going on the first time. Sacrament of the Sick may be give at any age.

    Holy Orders to the order of deacon is given to advanced seminarians. to the order of priest a few years later, if they pass all the requirements. Bishops are rarely young men when consecrated to that order. Higher ranks, including Pope, are not orders.

    Matrimony is given at the marriagible age of the culture. Almost all recipients are confirmed.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Age doesn't apply. I was baptized, confirmed, and took first communion at the age of 16. My first confession was later.

    Typically, your confirmation and first communion happen at the same time. You usually give your first confession before your confirmation. I didn't because i was an unbaptized convert, so I had all three at once, and confessed later.

    Source(s): I'm a Catholic
  • 1 decade ago

    I was catholic growing up.

    It went baptism, first communion, then confession, then confirmation

    I stopped before confirmation b/c catholicism wasn't really for me, but I know that confirmation was the next eventual step. I think if you look for the vatican website or something they would have the "official" answer, although maybe every church or area goes in a different order?

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't remember the ages but for me it was baptism, confession, communion and then in 6th, 7th or 8th grade confirmation.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    YOU are

    RC baptism makes you RC

    confession to get ready for HC

    communion to partake in the "Body of christ"

    Confirmation to increase knowledge and spiritual commitment

    Google RC

    Source(s): 20 yrs education
  • baptism, confession, communion, confirmation, marriage or holy orders,last rights (anointing of the sick)

    Source(s): the seven sacraments
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are both right, many dioceses have the confirmation and the holy communion combined , it is not mandatory to do so ,as many cultures are now involved .

    shake hands and buy each a burger

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