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Laure
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Laure asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

I don't know what to do... :(?

So, like I wrote this anonymous note to one of my teachers. It wasn't anything thaaaat bad, but it got reported and now they're trying to find out who wrote it... o and the worst part is they think its someone else. What do i do??

1. Admit that is was actually me and suffer the consequences (that at this point I can't afford)

2. Keep it a secret and let the other kid get blamed (And then live with the guilt the rest of my life)

gah so lost. stupid me

Update:

anonymous note: Lollygram on valentines day. It was a joke. :P

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Send another note saying it wasn't him. Make sure it's not in your handwriting or anything.

    Quote something exactly so they know it's authentic.

    Everybody makes mistakes, eh?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hi Laure, I am very sorry you are having to deal with this. I am praying for you and asking GOD to give you peace and comfort and that everything will turn out great.

    In my experience in dealing with situations similar to yours I learned that it was better to admit what I had done and apologize for it.

    Guilt is like a cancer and it will eat at you daily until the guilt is dealt with.

    Right now I know you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulder and my heart goes out to you. I know that once you explain to the person what you did was a joke and that you wasn't thinking clearly and that you are sorry for doing it then the person should be understanding and realize how hard this was for you to come forward and confess plus it keeps the wrong person from having to deal with something they didn't do.

    I can assure you that if you wait and dont do the right thing that you will be tormented by guilt every day and when the truth is finally discovered the situation will be many times worst and plus the wrongly accused person could take legal actions against you're

    Again I am deeply sorry this has happened to you however you are not alone...I am with you as is GOD. Please pray about this too.

    The sooner this get resolved.....the sooner you can have your peace & life back...I know from my experiences.

    You are a really special person Laure and I hope my words have helped. Thanks for asking this great question. I give you ten stars. Have a special & blessed day. David

    Source(s): my life's experiences
  • 1 decade ago

    For it to get reported you must have said some really dirty things in the letter? Nobody likes a easy lay so I suggest you stop with these raunchy notes to your teachers before you end up getting arrested.

    You may also like to make an appointment to see your guidance councilor before this becomes a real problem and you start sending naked pics of yourself to the science teacher doing sex acts with random items.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would own up to it before the situation gets worse. If you leave it a secret there's still a chance it will come out later and then be even worse for you. Get it over with, you'll feel better even though there are consequences.

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    1 decade ago

    For you to write an anonymous letter, to a teacher is a form of stalking. You need to grow up, and start being a stable person in society.

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