Are you for or against commercial surrogate pregnancy? Surrogacy in general? Why/ Why not?

I can't say I am 'against' surrogacy as it brings children to infertile couples for example who are desperate for a baby to love and that can only be a good thing...a fantastic thing even!.

However,the only thing i've never been able to understand about this is 'How' these surrogate Mother's can carry a baby for 9 months,give birth,in agony,with all the related emotions and feelings etc,to then just give the baby away for money,because that's the schematics of it really???

Im aware that the whole pregnancy would be completely different to literally carrying a baby that you and your partner made,but Surely the same feelings are there..and if they aren't,then it takes a certain 'type' of woman who is capable of detatching herself from the baby enough to hand it over after birth,So??????????

I am not sure what commercial surrogacy. I think surrogacy is one of the most unselfish and caring things someone could do for a couple. There are a lot of loving people who simply cannot have children.

My buddy had IVF with donor eggs some years in the past and yet another gal i understand received donor sperm for man made insemination. In both situations, their preparations contain allowing contact open archives after the age of both 18 or 21. My sister's relative has an contract with both households, for which she became a surrogate, to satisfy with the baby at any time the baby needs to satisfy her. it really is my conception that parents who're knowledgeable about the destiny effect those preparations ought to have on their children bypass out of their thanks to make sure that there should not be huge mysteries held out. Will they have the same topics? nicely, in a lot of situations, really of donor sperm, children are not even instructed. notwithstanding, is that any diverse from children who effect from their mom's sordid affair (and hubby under no circumstances knew)? i understand a few folk who chanced on out at the same time as that they had an ailment that their father became not their organic and organic father. somewhat a marvel. the actual undeniable truth that i understand two such human beings is more suitable of a situation because it makes me imagine it must be more suitable common than one ought to wish.