question about islam and parents?

Few others have given good advice. Inshallah will add a little to that.

Your mil is in the wrong and so is your husband for running off and not responding to you in kind. This cultural baggage need to be left home when they come over hear or they need to marry their own kind if they want this cultural drama. What your husband is doing is against Islam because both the mother and the wife have rights and he cannot do injustice to one while trying to please the other. He needs to think with rational mind and not be influenced or emotionally blackmailed or what not by one party so much so that he abused the Islamic rights of the other.

You should talk to his siblings or someone else in his family who can talk some sense into him. If things don't work then get the imam involved and start talking about your islamic rights as a wife and your son's rights over his father and other things you mentioned.

Sister

If his mother is dependent on him, then I can't imagine a good son would ever leave his mother, no matter how cruel she is. As for your parents, this would depend on their situation. If they can live independently, then you should visit them regularly, say every weekend or so. If they depend on you, then you will have to explain that to him.

Anyway, your husband is probably just angry now, so speak to a wise member of his family -- somebody who can influence him -- and get him/them involved to try and reconcile you two. They'll have to deal with you and your mother in law, since she is the source of the problem.

May Allah make you at ease.

you do no longer could convey your conversion basically yet. Convert on your heart first. Act as a Muslim and be form and respecting in direction of your mothers and fathers as that's a accountability of a Muslim. Such movements do no longer want any secrecy, hence you could prepare them brazenly. Be a stable Muslim for a jointly as. once you theory they are waiting, tell them which you have been a Muslim for such time. Ask them in the event that they loved it? i guess they are going to say that they have got loved it. Then it may be the terrific time to prepare brazenly the Islamic responsibilities inclusive of prayers and fasting. Islam insists very a lot on loving and respecting your mothers and fathers. that's an extremely stable element which you rather want to transform to Islam, yet attempt to tell your mothers and fathers in an extremely considerate way. replace: p.s. the only reason that your mothers and fathers would disagree is they do no longer understand a lot approximately Islam. So enable them to renowned via being a stable Muslimah. stable success

Dear Sister

I think these types of problesm are part of almost many many people .

First of all I advice you to be good with mother in law , even they say bad to you because if your real mother shout on you will you fight with them no , so treat them like your real mother

Secondly, on old age person become like that and become angry on even small things , so try to ignore that as this also happended due to old age too .

Finally, what I advice seek hlep from your parents, your husband parents or other family member elders and try to solve the issue peacefull.

It can be like that if you have two stories house you can use lower part , also if your parents can came closer or rent or buy the house next or closer to you so you can meet them easily. As you know your situation properly as your parents also needs you too so if possible try to live all in one house ,i know its not easy to atleast try to live near near to each other.

May Allah solve your problems.

I'm sorry to say this but your husband is a very weak man. In your position I believe that you should not let hjm back into your house because unless he changes, your life will be a misery

serious?

he isnt a husband divorce him look after your parents

Divorce him and look after your child.

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