can a person male or female live whole life without any type of sexual activity every thing normel ?

It's not "normal" for a mature human being to go without sexual intercourse.

Yes if they do not want to.

Trying to let go of urges wanting sex is a different story on the other hand...

when the feeling of desire arises one has to think of other things so sex doesn't

take control of the mind.

You have to take charge of you thinking and actions or they become habits and addictions that are hard to control once you don't control yourself enough.

If you or someone you know has this problem and needs help you can seek guidance from others who might know or even get into religion.

We can't always accomplish things on our own and sometimes we need others to let them help us out when we need it.

You can force it. you can control your sexuality, but that is not going to help. You will not be celibate, you will be only more and more sexual. Sex will spread all over your being. It will become part of your unconscious. It will move your dreams, it will become your motivation in dreams, it will become your fantasy. In fact, you will become more sexual than you ever were before. You will think more about it and you will have to repress it again and again.

And whatsoever is repressed has to be repressed again because victory is never complete. There is no way to destroy sex by force, by violence. There is no way to control and discipline it. The people who have tried to control and discipline it have made the world very pornographic. Your so-called saints have a very pornographic mind. If a window can be created and a hole can be made in their heads, you will be able to see just sex, pornography. it is bound to be so. It is natural.

Never enforce any celibacy on yourself. Try to understand what sexuality is, go deep into it. It has a tremendous beauty of its own. It is one of the profoundest mysteries of life. Life comes out of it -- it has to be a great mystery. Sex is not sin; repression is a sin. Sex is very natural, very spontaneous. You have not done anything to have it, it is inborn, it is part of your being. Don't condemn it, don't judge it, don't fear it, don't fight with it. Simply go into it more -- more meditatively. Let it happen in such silence, in such deep acceptance, that you can know the very core of it.

yes its called being asexual. asexual means you have know attraction to sexual activities with people in general

Noooooooo!

if they want to

No!!