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Can you help me with this girl?

I'm in high school as a sophomore she is in the same grade as me, but a year older, because she moved here from another country about 7 years ago. We met last year in science class and I have been in love with her ever since. We used to talk mostly on Facebook, but now we are in an English class together and we talk all the time in person there, she sits next to me everyday. She has had a boyfriend whom I strongly dislike for the last 8 months or so and have broken up on numerous accounts because they go to different schools and never see each other because her family is very controlling. Every time they say something on each others walls on Facebook it just say "No your cuter!" "Noooo yourrr cuter!!!" Stuff like that. Plus he is the type of person that hits on so many girls, and she is kind of oblivious to that. I just don't want her to get hurt by him :(. The only thing he has on me is looks. I always let her use my cell phone for games and texting in class and sometime let her take it for the day, the last couple times, she told me that she loves me. Also the other day she "forced" me to let her and her sister give me a ride home from school, I don't know why, but I went anyway. Also last week she asked me "if I asked you to Sadies would you go with me?" I said I guess so, but you have a boyfriend, so it doesn't matter, but yea. Then yesterday, she asked if I would go to Prom if I didn't have a date, and I said no probably not. I don't know why she is asking or saying these things. Today, we didn't really talk about anything special, but we played solitaire together on my phone. What should I do next? I still reallllly like her and want her to like me more. I need advice on what to do? Does she like me? I need help. Thanks so much and please give me a lot of advice.

Update:

Plus I have known her for 6 months or so longer than her boyfriend.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well, in my opinion, she's torn. She feels obligated to the guy who she's been dated, but likes you too!

    She's also confused about liking you because you probably were her friend first and she doesn't know if she likes you as a friend or boyfriend. Also, maybe a bit aggravated because of her troublesome relationship!

    Advice:

    Be there for her through relationship troubles!

    Don't tell her you hate her boyfriend!!! I will add more stress!

    When she asks you those dance questions just say "yes, of course!"

    Be a good friend to her and she will appreciate that!

    BE PATIENT! it will take her time to relize who she really likes!

    Good luck!

    Source(s): Im a girl and I have more emotion than a teaspoon
  • 4 years ago

    properly, judging by potential of ways she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends on the comparable time) she could say sure and purely use you to cheer up and then sell off you. i might say this is form of of a grey section. yet once you fairly think of she's that appealing and additionally you do no longer innovations what happens later then yep you're precise 2 perhaps 3 weeks and your golden. the different one will in all probability get jealous, yet once you men do no longer communicate she'll recover from you and circulate on and additionally you will by no potential have that danger back... which might suck if she easily is that fairly :L You gotta come to a decision which woman you like greater. simply by fact in case you choose for one your gonna omit out on the different. the dancing element: i for my section think of which would be fairly amazing xP yet some females could be like.. wtf?? i assume it relies upon on the style you pull it off - like while you're an exceedingly humorous no longer awkward guy you're golden with that. yet once you come of cheesy this is sport over. desire i could help :P

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