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Ana
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Ana asked in Pregnancy & ParentingGrade-Schooler · 1 decade ago

Angry 6 yr old in class?

Ever since his teacher came back from maternity leave, my son has been having fits in class like throwing books, tipping over desk and chairs, and kicking the teacher. He likes his teacher but loves his substitute and was angry when the sub left. That was back in feb. We are also in the military and about to move. He is upset with that too. This also happen before in day care when his provider left for surgery and came back two months later. He went nuts. I had to pull him out and he calmed down. What I don't understand is he changed schools and location and houses with no apparent problem but when an authority figure leaves momentarily he can't handle it. I don't know how I'm going to get thru til next month. Pulling him out now is not an option and it doesn't teach him to deal with his anxiety. He was fine in pre k and kindergarten so I dunno since feb he is impossible for the school to deal with. Any ideas??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Tricky problem you've got there. You're right: your son seems to rely quite a lot on a consistent authority figure. Since you guys are in the military and will likely move a lot more in the future, here's my shot in the dark;)

    He may need an authority figure he can carry in his pocket at all times. I don't know if you are religious, but if your are, say, Christian, it may be a special cross that you, Dad, and son go to the store to buy together to indicate its significance of a larger authority that remains constant (Hubby and I are not super religious, but just giving a specific example). Or maybe it's a trinket that Dad or Grammy or Mom gave him, reminding him that those who love him always hope he'll feel safe and be kind to others.

    Cause it seems like he's acting out because he's scared. And when we're scared, we just need some reassurance that we're looked after and all will be okay.

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