Sexually abused young man looking for advice?

Don't ever blame yourself for what happened William, you are not at fault! This adult took advantage of you. It doesn't matter if you are attracted to guys or girls, he had no right to touch you in any way. This man is obviously a family member if you see him on family occasions, and even so, that doesn't change anything. He was in the wrong not you.

Don't loose trust in everyone, because there are people out there who are trusting and loving, that aren't looking to hurt you. It takes a long time to heal after abuse, but it can happen, but you can't keep everything bottled up inside. That will make things worse over time.

If you would like to talk to someone, to get things off your chest, please feel free to contact me.

I hope this helps you bro, and I hope you feel better. Good Luck!

It doesn't matter what the specifics of the abuse are, he violated you and your trust. You didn't bring this upon yourself. No one should force any abuse on another person, for any reason.

You have been through a lot at such a young age, it is normal for you to feel this way. Sexual abuse is scary and it is hard to tell people about it, but just remember that HE is the one who did this to you, you did not do anything wrong! there is no reason for you to feel bad about it because you were the one who was abused. You need to talk to someone about it , it's very important. I suggest you see a professional, they will keep your information confidential and they will not judge you. Find a counselor or a doctor you can tell this to. It seems to me you are suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This is common to happen after traumatic experiences such as sexual abuse.

I was sexually abused myself and I suffer from depression and PTSD now because of it, but I am seeking treatment and in healing.

If you want someone to talk to about this without judgement, you can talk to me...

Whoa back the bus up bud. The first thing you have to realise is this is not your fault. He has taken advantage of you. I know what you must be feeling because i was sexually abused when I was 11 and again forcibly at 18.

You need to talk to a professional bud because this is starting to consume you and I also feel you need to out this man. If he touches your back or legs again you need to make it quite clear to him that you don't like it and he is not to do that again and say it loudly.

You can do this but you need support, don't just leave it to fester.

Put the past behind you. I understand under circumstances like that, that it is very very difficult to do so, but the benefit of it could help you out tremendously. Bro, you're a good person, and dont think you're not because you are. Go out and find that girl you always wanted to be with, one day have kids! Go do the goals you have, like schooling, or even just hanging out with some friends, go out and live your life! put the past behind you and make a new chapter!

Always remind yourself that you're strong, that you can do things, write it down, because it isn't a lie, it isn't something just to get your hopes up a little to get you by, it's the truth! You really can, just believe and do.

I hope, from me to you that I could help you out a little bit. I wish you good luck my friend, and remember when times get hard, just believe in yourself and keep moving forward. Don't stop!

So sorry to hear that someone you trusted has and still does take advantage of that trust. What he has done is inexcusable and illegal.

There is no way that you were at fault and he needs to be held accountable for his actions. I would bet that you are not the only victim of his abuse. Easy enough to find out just by watching who he is seeing now.

You do need mental health help. Either in person or through an accepted on-line organization.

DO NOT TRUST an individual that says hey I was abused too , talk to me about it, since chances are very good they are trying to get off on your trauma.

I hope you find the inner strength to follow through with reporting this person and getting the help you need.

First of all I'm sorry this sick man did this to you. But you need to report this to the police and your parents or someone you know will listen. You also need abuse counseling now to begin recovery.You can find them online. I really wish the best for you.

You need to,at the very least, see a therapist weekly for a while. They really help. He can help you get your life on track. As for the guy I have never been in this situation before but I would want the man to rot behind bars so why not file a police report? Why let him go free and abuse someone else? Whether or not you seek legal action is up to you but please at least speak to a psychologist.

-Connor

The longer you let him get away with it, the deeper your pain will grow.

You owe it to yourself to claim your life back. That starts with reporting him to the police. It will be hard in the short-term, but until you do that, you will continue to feel like a rabbit caught in the headlights of an approaching 18-wheeler.

I am so sorry to here this, I'm sure u r talking a man of the cloth. I assure u, U r not alone. I would some how chat with u is all possible. So i can help u. I promise I can help u. and do something about it. with in the law. I do understand that it is hard for u to trust, But u need to learn to trust someone.

here is my e-mail RELIEF_01@hotmail.com

this is the first step, the second when u reach me I will tell u more.

If not I wish u the best of luck and don't give up.

I'll pray for u

You need to tell the police for real. He ruined a huge part of your life that was supposed to be filled with good memories. Btw that RELIEF_01 guy seems creepy don't talk to him. Go tell the cops or a parent.