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Am i addicted to sex?

My fiance and i had an awesome sex life in the beginning. 4 years and a baby later, i can hardly get him to have sex and when he does it lasts 5 min and hes done and i barley got started! I masterbate a lot recently and i crave sex, all kinds of sex I just want it all day everyday and he will give me 5 minutes of it every 3 or 4 days....I need to change this or ill go crazy any suggestions as to why this is happening or if im being unreasonable?

Update:

All sex meaning any thing possible anal oral doggy i really don't care, And trust me i am far far from shy in bed toys have been introduced porn has been used i always want to try new things and he just wants the usual.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I do not think you are addicted to sex I think that you are just deprived of it. There is nothing wrong with masturbating, that is perfectly natural. However if I was you I would totally talk to my man about this kind of situation. A passion-less relationship is a pointless relationship.

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    1 decade ago

    Buy a toy. Ive been going through this as well (I am 18 and a male). We all go through phases where we crave and desire sex, it's normal so relax.

    Also, I do not think your being unreasonable, but maybe your hubby is just a little uninterested/worn out. Try spicing it up a bit, be a little kinky in the bed room and again, buy some damn toys.

    *edit*

    I saw your additional thing, and I honestly feel bad for you, you have my sympathy (which I do not give out often). Your man is being very, very selfish. Confront him and tell him this, tell him to stop only caring about his sexual needs, and remind him just how damn lucky he is to have a horny wife like you, trust me, it's every guys dream.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think your husband is the one being unreasonable and selfish and you should talk to him about meeting half way on your needs. I can't imagine a man turning down a horny gal. What do you mean by all kinds of sex? I don't think your addicted.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well I think your finance need to perform much better than what he is doing.. I can understand how you must be feeling.. talk to him see if he can visit a doc about his problem.. in a meanwhile try an masturbate.. there is nothing wrong in tat..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    To me it sounds like he only cares about himself. Five minutes is all he needs and after he busts a nut then he doesn't care if you finish or not. So I think you should speak to him and see what's up?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Bless you....what a shame there isn't more women just like you!

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