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Girl help for a 16 year old guy please?

Okay, so I like this girl (duh), well thing is, my parents didn't let me date til I was 16, and I had 3 secret gfs before then... but since I turned 16 there was nothing... because I gave up on the whole secret relationship thing cuz it didn't work for me. But yeah, I'm able to date now, and I have no clue what I'm doing... I mean I know you're supposed to be nice and whatnot. But how do I show I like her? And more importantly how should I ask her out??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Just do the same as you did before, but be more open. You don't have to wary of it leaking out or anything. Just be yourself and just go with it. How did you ask out your past girlfriends? Just do the same. You can just ask her to hang out. I suggest maybe being friends first, but i don't know, some people like dating differently.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Be sweet, funny, and romantic. Girls love it. :) Since you can date, ask her out! Just stop by her locker one day at school, while she's leaving for a class you have together (if you have one). Offer to carry her books, introduce yourself, and ask if she wants to see a movie. Be chivalrous, kind, and caring. Get her digits! Text and get to know each other before the big date. Good luck! Here's a dialogue of how your conversation should go(don't panic if it;s not totally the same)

    You: Hey, you ready for that spanish test today?

    Her: I think so, I studied for an hour last night!

    You: I hope I am

    Her: *smiles* *takes a bunch of books out of her locker*

    You: Can I help you with those?

    Her: Sure!

    *head off to class*

    You: I'm ( your name).

    Her: Nice to meet you, I'm (her name)

    You: Do you have a phone, (her name) ?

    Her: yes I do

    You: Here's my number. Text me sometime?

    Her: *giggles* sure!

    You: Have you seen (movie)? It;s supposed to be really good

    Her: No, I really want to!

    You: How 'bout Friday?

    Her: It's a date!

    You: Call me!

    Hope that was helpful

  • 1 decade ago

    When you're in a group with her, make sure you talk mainly to her. Catch her eyes a lot, laugh at her jokes. When you're alone together, talk about more than just superficial stuff. Touch her arm when you're talking or making a point. Smile at her a lot. Let her talk to you, and if you're close enough, hug her. When you feel like you are ready, ask her out and hope for the best. :)

    Source(s): Teenage Girl
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Become close to her before you ask her out. You two should be able to joke around on the phone before you ask her out on a date. Anything before that is too soon and can scare her away.

    When you're asking her out on a date, say something to the lines of "Do your parents let you date?" If she says yes, then you can say "Well what do you think they would say about going on a date with me?" then to whatever she says, just ask "So will you?"

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be cool. Do you have any classes with a girl you like? If so, then talk to her then. If not, when she's walking, nonchalantly catch up with her and start chatting. if she's behind, nonchalantly allow her to catch up and talk. get to know each other, flirt, and smile A LOT. And tease each other and stuff. If you want to ask somebody out, do it in person. same with break ups. just ask her and be open about it and not shy.

    Hope it helps.

    good luck.

    Source(s): My experience;)
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. Go to the movies or something nice like that and just compliment her :)

  • 1 decade ago

    yes ask her out, but only on a date first and sweep her off her feet, that will show that you like her that much and she will be flattered. then ask her to be your girlfriend.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be nice and flirt with her. Ask kindly for her number. Get to know her!

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    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201105...

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