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Okay, so I'm 17, I was raised Christian, I am a Christian, and my girlfriend is pretty much the same. So I was wondering, are fingering and handjobs technically sinful? I mean yes I'm aware that the Bible states many times to stray from sexual immorality, and that society tells us everything is okay even sex. But me and her really want to save that for marriage. But it's going to be incredibly hard with the physical attraction between us being incredibly strong (but we also have a strong emotional base to balance it don't worry.) But idk I just think maybe these things could be a pressure reliever so to speak, because if we do nothing it might actually lead to full on intercourse the next time we're alone. I know it is probably technically wrong but we don't do it just for physical reasons we really do love each other and please don't say I don't know about love because God gave me and understanding of that when I studied his love for us growing up. And I know it's wrong to take the lesser of two evils instead of neither but hormones are a powerful thing, and we almost get out of control just kissing. So please can you give me your opinions on what you think?

Okay. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for like 2 and 1/2 months now... and I really really like her... but lately it just feels like maybe we're not meant to be. Like, I've been feeling far away from her except when we're together, when before I felt really close to her no matter where I was... Idk what's causing it I mean I still like her, but for some reasons some of the things that seemed cute before now I just don't think anything special about them... I don't want us to break up so soon but is that what it's heading towards?? I still want to be with her it's just for some reason I don't think I should... And I know we prolly weren't gunna last past high school but it's just too soon I think... it could be cuz we haven't spent much time together lately but yeah... if you need info filled in to answer better please say so I will add as you recommend.

Okay. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for like 2 and 1/2 months now... and I really really like her... but lately it just feels like maybe we're not meant to be. Like, I've been feeling far away from her except when we're together, when before I felt really close to her no matter where I was... Idk what's causing it I mean I still like her, but for some reasons some of the things that seemed cute before now I just don't think anything special about them... I don't want us to break up so soon but is that what it's heading towards?? I still want to be with her it's just for some reason I don't think I should... And I know we prolly weren't gunna last past high school but it's just too soon I think... it could be cuz we haven't spent much time together lately but yeah... if you need info filled in to answer better please say so I will add as you recommend.

Okay... so, I really like my girlfriend right? Like really really like her.. problem is, we've only been dating a month and 9 days... and we're also only 16... so I'm thinking it could be too soon and what i'm feeling could be infatuation... but, this doesn't seem like infatuation, like I can still live my life and I'm not completely obsessed with her. But she makes me happy and I just feel like the only words that can express how I'm feeling is "I love you"... and the perfect time to say it would be tonight at homecoming... but, I'm starting to wonder if it's right. Cuz it seems right, but I'm not sure it just seems so soon... and I'm also kindof afraid of what will come next... I mean, we've already unintentionally (or at least without completely thinking it through) gotten to second base, if "love" comes into the picture, how much faster are things gunna go for us? Please any serious advice is appreciated.

Okay... so I'm 16 and going to homecoming with my girlfriend (also 16) to homecoming right? Well, I was thinking it'd be really romantic to say I loved her during a slow dance... problem is, we've been dating for a month and a week now... so Idk if this is too soon, I mean she already says it, so what's your opinion? We really care about each other and we connect like really well there's definitely something really special about it and I've never felt this way before... mature answers please, and ik it's prolly not full legit love but I think I do love her as far as I can comprehend and I think I have a good grasp on the love concept... so yeah.

Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating for like a month now... and we've already shown some problems with going too fast physically... yeah we've already been to 2nd base... now I don't wanna go too fast, but I don't wanna go to slow either... so what's your opinions on when each base is acceptable?? And if you say it's based on how we are emotionally, how can you tell you're ready for each step??

Okay... idk why but I think this is hormones... but I have been constantly thinking about my girlfriend and I'm crazy about her... but lately whenever I'm just by myself I can't stop thinking about sex, and so the two mix and I picture... well, you know... but whenever I'm around her it's fine and like normal... why is this? Shouldn't I be more turned on around her??

Okay... so Ik this is kinda dumb... but I'm kinda clueless still when it comes to girls grinding on me... and I have a girlfriend now that I've been dating awhile, and I know she's way into me... and she's talked about it with other ppl before that she'll try to help me out while grinding me... But I just need some tips to not look like a complete dork and maybe impress her a little?? It'd be much appreciated cuz I've had a girl grind on me before and I'm not sure I'm doing what I'm supposed to...

Okay... so Ik this is kinda dumb... but I'm kinda clueless still when it comes to girls grinding on me... and I have a girlfriend now that I've been dating awhile, and I know she's way into me... and she's talked about it with other ppl before that she'll try to help me out. But I just need some tips to not look like a complete dork and maybe impress her a little?? It'd be much appreciated

Okay... so Ik this is kinda dumb... but I'm kinda clueless still when it comes to girls grinding on me... and I have a girlfriend now that I've been dating awhile, and I know she's way into me... and she's talked about it with other ppl before that she'll try to help me out. But I just need some tips to not look like a complete dork and maybe impress her a little?? It'd be much appreciated

Kay, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over a month now... and we went to a movie...well while there, we obviously started making out... but, it got intense enough that I am questioning it afterward... like we'd kiss each other's necks and touch under clothes (but above underwear and I only touched her butt and boobs) so is this too intense for 1 month? Or does it just depend cuz we really like each other and we have this amazing connection. I was just thinking and I realized it mighta been a little far... so answers please?

Kay, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over a month now... and we went to a movie...well while there, we obviously started making out... but, it got intense enough that I am questioning it afterward... like we'd kiss each other's necks and touch under clothes (but above underwear and I only touched her butt and boobs) so is this too intense for 1 month? Or does it just depend cuz we really like each other and we have this amazing connection. I was just thinking and I realized it mighta been a little far... so answers please?

Okay, so I have a girlfriend, and we're like a week away from dating for a month... we're both 16 and we are hitting it off really well. And so, I really think she's attractive, so I end up getting turned on all the time around her, especially when we makeout or she plays with my hair or touches my chest or back... ik I get turned on a little too easily... like, I'll just think about being with her not even in the sexual way and I'll get a hard on in class... any ideas on how to curb my libido? Cuz I don't wanna do that right now... (okay technically my body does, but mind doesn't) so help please?

Okay... so me and my new gf started going out a week ago... and around 5 days into our relationship is when we had our first kiss and it was right after our first date... well then we started french kissing... so my question is, is 1 week too soon to be frenching? Cuz we really like each other and she didn't seem to mind considering she started it with me lol... so, frenching too soon? Or is it okay?

Okay... so there's this new girl in band right? Well I finally admitted to myself I like her and i was gunna go for her... but then I found out she's interested in another dude... and I heard from another friend that she's talking to 3 guys right now... ik the first one is bad enough, but Idk if the second one means she likes 3 dudes or what... all I know is that I'm pissed that I might not get a chance and this always happens... so does this mean I don't have a chance with her? Or should I go for it anyways?

Okay, so as previously stated, I'm meeting up with a cute girl. We're both in 10th grade, and I have this massive crush on her. Now at first I thought I only liked her cuz she was insanely cute, but as I just let the year go on I realized I like her for her personality too... thing is she doesn't know I like her, and I have been trying to make plans with her for awhile, and she's been busy, but now we're finally gunna meet up this afternoon! We're taking a walk because we live kinda close, so any tips on how to make it fun? I'm not gunna hold her hand or whatever unless it feels like she wants me to, but how can I make her see that I'm a good guy? what kinda things can I say to get it out of her if she likes me? I'm kinda nervous that it'll just be silent cuz I won't know what to say... and I'm also nervous that I won't find out if she likes me or worse, be put in the 'friend' zone for good... just general advice on what to do please??

Okay, so as previously stated, I'm meeting up with a cute girl. We're both in 10th grade, and I have this massive crush on her. Now at first I thought I only liked her cuz she was insanely cute, but as I just let the year go on I realized I like her for her personality too... thing is she doesn't know I like her, and I have been trying to make plans with her for awhile, and she's been busy, but now we're finally gunna meet up this afternoon! We're taking a walk because we live kinda close, so any tips on how to make it fun? I'm not gunna hold her hand or whatever unless it feels like she wants me to, but how can I make her see that I'm a good guy? what kinda things can I say to get it out of her if she likes me? I'm kinda nervous that it'll just be silent cuz I won't know what to say... and I'm also nervous that I won't find out if she likes me or worse, be put in the 'friend' zone for good... just general advice on what to do please??

Okay. So, I recently have been thinking that I like this one girl... she's like really nice and sweet to me even though she claims to seem a ***** to other people, and I don't think that at all. She's fun and cool, but I don't like her completely physically. I mean, I am attracted to her, and she's not ugly, she's just not completely pretty either... but yet she is kinda at the same time. I know physical attraction isn't supposed to be the most important thing, but it has some role doesn't it?? Please help?

Okay, so I like this girl (duh), well thing is, my parents didn't let me date til I was 16, and I had 3 secret gfs before then... but since I turned 16 there was nothing... because I gave up on the whole secret relationship thing cuz it didn't work for me. But yeah, I'm able to date now, and I have no clue what I'm doing... I mean I know you're supposed to be nice and whatnot. But how do I show I like her? And more importantly how should I ask her out??

Okay, so I like this girl (duh), well thing is, my parents didn't let me date til I was 16, and I had 3 secret gfs before then... but since I turned 16 there was nothing... because I gave up on the whole secret relationship thing cuz it didn't work for me. But yeah, I'm able to date now, and I have no clue what I'm doing... I mean I know you're supposed to be nice and whatnot. But how do I show I like her? And more importantly how should I ask her out??