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Some help with a girl? I'm 16?

Okay, so I like this girl (duh), well thing is, my parents didn't let me date til I was 16, and I had 3 secret gfs before then... but since I turned 16 there was nothing... because I gave up on the whole secret relationship thing cuz it didn't work for me. But yeah, I'm able to date now, and I have no clue what I'm doing... I mean I know you're supposed to be nice and whatnot. But how do I show I like her? And more importantly how should I ask her out??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Okay well, First you make friends with this girl, talk to her, get to know her, see how things go. Then, go a little easy with her, flirt with her every now and again, not a lot you don't want her to really know you like her. When you feel its right ask her if she likes you as more than a friend. <3

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Show her you like her by being especially nice to her, and making sure to make her feel important for who she is. Flirt here and there and establish a relationship that is more than friendship. Once accomplished, ask her out to go to the movies or eat somewhere whenever you can, and if done right, it's an offer she can't refuse.

    In the process of dating, make sure she comes first. Don't prioritize the relationship around yourself, or you won't be seeing benefits from it as you would expect. Remember: If she ain't happy, you ain't happy!

    Source(s): The Book of Knowledge and SCIENCE!
  • 1 decade ago

    Become friends with the girl, don't overly be nice. Be yourself. I personally don't like to be hit on the first time I meet a guy, so once you know she likes you, start to slowly flirt with her. Then once you know she shows you that she likes you ask her to hang out. Eventually, you'll get to a point where you are comfortable and ask her out on a date. Not to be pushy, but a girlfriend is more than just a friend you are attracted to. You should really like her and treasure the relationship. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    You're Mormon aren't you??

    Anyways, first move you gotta make is getting her number. This should be easy because your at the end of the year. Just be like let's hang out this summer, what's your number lol... that simple(you don't have to use that line or wait for school to end even).

    Second move is to get to know stuff about her... i'm sure you're interested so this shouldn't be a problem.

    Thirdly, ask her out! Make it clear that you like her. Even tell her that you like her if you want. Kissing isn't always a good idea for the first date but don't rule it out.

    Be yourself bro, you got this one

    Source(s): GOT YOUR BACK HOMES
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  • 1 decade ago

    Make her laugh, have fun first.. then once you start talking on a deeper and friendly level compliment her once. "You look beautiful" or whatever. See how she responds.. If its positive then a couple of days later lie that you need some help with homework or think of another excuse to go out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you ask her out, she will understand that you like her.

    Ask her to hang out / dinner / go to the mall / movie / ice skating / bowling / etc.

    Whatever it is sixteen year olds do.

    Worst case: she'll tell you she doesn't want to hang out.

    Best case: she'll go on a date with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    the best way is to become real good friends but not best friends and then ask her out

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