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I need some serious help please! I really like this girl!?!?
Okay, so as previously stated, I'm meeting up with a cute girl. We're both in 10th grade, and I have this massive crush on her. Now at first I thought I only liked her cuz she was insanely cute, but as I just let the year go on I realized I like her for her personality too... thing is she doesn't know I like her, and I have been trying to make plans with her for awhile, and she's been busy, but now we're finally gunna meet up this afternoon! We're taking a walk because we live kinda close, so any tips on how to make it fun? I'm not gunna hold her hand or whatever unless it feels like she wants me to, but how can I make her see that I'm a good guy? what kinda things can I say to get it out of her if she likes me? I'm kinda nervous that it'll just be silent cuz I won't know what to say... and I'm also nervous that I won't find out if she likes me or worse, be put in the 'friend' zone for good... just general advice on what to do please??
Btw, idk if this helps anything, but I had a dream last night, and in it she was the one trying to hookup with me, and it seemed like she really liked me in it.
4 Answers
- ChocoholicLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
First of all - don't scare her. Just make this a friend date. No need to hold hands or make a move yet. Trust me, the last thing you want to do is come off as desperate. Girls like the thrill of wondering, "Does he like me??" Be friendly, smile lots, and be confident.
Have a destination to walk to. Go get ice cream or something, this will make your walk easier. If you see a playground or something, don't be afraid to get a little crazy and jump on the monkeybars for a minute. Be spontaneous.
As for conversation, school is always a good topic if you both have the same classes. Talk about your crazy teachers or share some gossip. Talk about anything you have in common- sports, movies you want to see, food, anything- even if it's not very relevant. Ask her about her summer plans and tell her yours.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Ok you need to calm down. Over stressing will only make it worse! You will be fine!Talk about common interests that you have and most likely you will go off on different tangents and talk about anything and everything!! Another piece of advice is to not talk about other girls a ton, because then it will seem like you are not interested in her. I know this sounds cliche but be yourself and just let the conversation flow, because if she's not interested in you, you want to be sure it is the real you that she is not interested in... if that makes any sense. Hope this helps, good luck, and have a great time! :)
Source(s): My Brain - 1 decade ago
Yeh, often dreams could be things you really want to happen / things you remember. It's likely that it's the first thing in this case. Just give her hints like complimenting her.. tell her she looks pretty. Or give her small things she may like. Make her laugh or offer to take her out. First build friendship before any other kind of relationship.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well honestly just be real and say what you think feels right.. Ask her if she would wanna go out to the movies or dinner and if she says yes its a good thing dont try to push it to far ask her about her life and what she likes to do and dont stay quite its a turn off and oquard!!
