I feel like we're drifting? or at least me?

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Okay. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for like 2 and 1/2 months now... and I really really like her... but lately it just feels like maybe we're not meant to be. Like, I've been feeling far away from her except when we're together, when before I felt really close to her no matter where I was... Idk what's causing it I mean I still like her, but for some reasons some of the things that seemed cute before now I just don't think anything special about them... I don't want us to break up so soon but is that what it's heading towards?? I still want to be with her it's just for some reason I don't think I should... And I know we prolly weren't gunna last past high school but it's just too soon I think... it could be cuz we haven't spent much time together lately but yeah... if you need info filled in to answer better please say so I will add as you recommend.

missxtaylor3 · Accepted Answer

The newness of the relationship is wearing off. That's not necessarily a bad thing, at all, in fact it's actually normal. Things that used to be so exciting and "cute" are just feeling like normal things that aren't so exciting because you're used to them. They're not so new anymore. If you're having doubts about your relationship, it's something you need to take up with your girlfriend. Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. The relationship is still really really fresh and you guys have plenty of time to get to know each other better and do things with each other. Spice things up a bit, go out more, spend more time together, BE TOGETHER. It's a relationship, not a friendship- It takes work.

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I feel like we're drifting? or at least me?

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