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I Need Really Good Relationship Advice. Serious Advice :)?

So I have a new boyfriend that I've been dating for 2 months tomorrow. We barely hang out or talk but when we are together it's always fun (and when we actually talk). I get to see him this weekend at a surprise party but what if he doesn't pay attention to me? I know it's his party but still. Advice on that and what to do about us not talking much. Thanks :)

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    If he doesn't pay attention to you, it sounds like he really doesn't care to be frank with you.

    Guys that like girls, or even girls that like guys always pay attention to their bf/gf.

    It sounds like he's the type of guy to tell you what you want to hear, like you said you always have fun talking together.

    Advice? Ask him where he thinks you two are, what he thinks of you two so far.

    B.

  • 10 years ago

    Well honestly, that doesn't sound good. Idk, maybe he is just shy...that's up to you to decide. But I would definitely pay attention to how he interacts with you versus other people at this party. If he is extroverted and social with everyone else and not you then that might be a sign that the relationship isn't going to work. I mean you are his girlfriend so he should be spending time with you at this party. Of course, its a party for him so expect him to make the rounds and talk to everyone, I mean that's just the thing to do, but if you find him ignoring you, then either he's immature and doesn't know how to treat a girl or he may not be ready to be in a relationship. But you should also make an attempt to start the conversation in the event that he is shy by nature.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    Bring some of your female friends and have fun with them. Let him do his thing and hang with his friends. Talk to him every know and then but do not be clingy give him space. If he wants you near him then do so. Some of us guys are quite and like our space. Show him that you can have a good time in his environment. Go with the flow. It's a social setting so just have fun. After the party talk to him about communication. Tell him you enjoy being with him but would like to be able to talk more with him.

  • 10 years ago

    Go for serious dating instead of partying. Have several 1-1 outing to the beach, picnic, lunch. Other outings will be candlelight dinner. Then, you will more time to understand each other and build a relationship. With this foundation growing, then go back to your party.

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  • 10 years ago

    Just talk more... I mean, is there anything stopping you from calling and texting any time he's available. Just call to check in and see how his day is going or tell him whats going on with u. Since he's ur boyfriend, he should pay attention to u. If not, try to talk to him while ur there. Im not saying total jump in "look at me look at me" but try to be seen a little.

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  • 10 years ago

    I would say that he is not really into the relationship. I don't want to hurt your feelings, because things like this can be very tough, but I think that if I am right you deserve better than someone who is not interested in the same things that you are.

  • 10 years ago

    maybe you just need to move on sugar. you don't do anything together. i'd just pack it up and call it an experience. but at least when you are together you're not bored. but nonetheless, if you're worried he's going to ignore you at his party instead of having you on his arm proud that you're his girlfriend............... well just see what happens hun.

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  • blah
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    Well personally I don't talk much either but I really do try, if they're not willing to try for you then they're not worth it. If he ignores you then just bail.

  • 10 years ago

    try talking to him a bit during the party if he doesnt have your number give it to him :D

  • 10 years ago

    Seriously? HE IS YOUR BOYFRIEND. He likes you for who you are. If he doesn't then why bother? Just be yourself, and have fun together!!

    answer mine :)

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Akncf...

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