My dad has been such a *** i dont know what to do anymore.?

Fathers are finicky figures as are women just with a transverse plate of emotions. Usually angry and down right rude but (not to sound to cheesy) it's only natural. The majority of fathers are at times drunk an angry at there kids for past experiences as a kid themselves an lack a more proper way to vent there emotions. But being the patriarchal member of the family he would request respect from you even if he docent return the favor. I truly above things request respect from any one I associate with, but despite all my efforts my mother is the only one able to with stand an argument from me. Parents are odd like that, just unwilling to lose an argument to there kids for pride, or out of the respect they expect you to give them.

But all in all it not that your over reacting, your just reacting, purely common amongst adolescent teen. As for advice I can only say that you try to with stand it, this is what most fathers are like, I mean my stepfather is a 50 year bar buddy catholic with that old guy stern temper. Half the time he doesn't give me the respect I show him, an if he start giving me lip I suck it up an move on from it, it's not like it gonna do me any good to dwell on that sort of thing.

"Look for the solutions in life, not the problem"

Hope that this was helpful.

Thank goodness you are almost old enough to go to college and get out of the house. Alcoholics are very difficult to live with. Just remember that alcoholism is caused by an addictive personality and is sometimes inherited. In the meantime, just try to avoid him. The big thing is that many children of alcoholics, end up dating or marrying the same type of guy. Please, don't make that mistake.

If things get too bad, talk to your counselor at school, or you can join Ala-teen for children of alcoholics for support.

Al-Anon/Alateen Hotline

Hope & Help for young people who are the relatives & friends of a problem drinker.

God bless You.

1-800-344-2666

So sorry you're in that situation. I remember when I was a teenager and I would absolutely hate to be at home with my dad. He would always drink and would never encourage me to do well at school. I suggest you just stay focused on your classes so you can achieve YOUR dreams. Don't let anyone hold you back (even if he is your father). Let those dreams be your motivation

no you are not overreacting you should do whatever you want in life and dont let him stop you or get you upset you are a wonderful person and just try to ignore him if it is really an issue then get some people involved cuz your dad being drunk all the time isn't helping hope everything is better<3 take care love

Im sorry to hear this (well i guess reaad) but perhaps your dad feels stressed of work issuses and drinks. I think that this may be related to his alcohol intake. Perhaps slowly you and your family can break his habbit of sitting and drinking, to going out sometime or having a bbq outside or something so he can break free of his old ways

I use to complain about my dad and then in 07 God took him away and all the things I hated about him became petty and all the things I loved about him became sweet memories I hold on to....your dad isn't perfect and never will be butlove him while he's here!

nah your not over reacting. Can you move out with your mom if this continues? my dad was an Alcoholic and he was even nicer than that! lol