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I was seeing a woman for a few months and a crisis came by the death of her grandmother in Peurto Rico?

The death happened in mid December of last year. Up until then we had a wonderful relationship with short times we had spent together. We both felt a connection between the other and thankfully it was not a sexual based relationship. We talked every day as well as texted each other and many times we were doing this at the same time her where she was and I where I was. Last time I saw her was on Christmas Day. Last time I spoke to her was Early to mid February. I have not heard from her since. Should I try to contact her at this point in time?

Update:

She works about thirty minutes from me and she also lives in Arizona as do I. Since it is hard to just strike up conversation with her, my thought was to go to her place of work when she goes on lunch break and talk with her. One of two things can happen! Since her and I never discussed this scenario it is difficult to know where she is or what she wants. I keep wondering if she is the sort of woman who believes that if a man really wants her he will not stop until they are back together or no further contact is her best policy. Since I am still unable to read minds, I am uncertain what the future will hold for the two of us. This is far worse than my exwife leaving me for some guy her age. I do not believe I have thought about this woman as I have for so long and so hard and I am not speaking sexually either!

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    Do you both live in the same country? Did the grandmother live in that country too?

  • 10 years ago

    I would casually strike up a conversation and try to feel out where she is in her life right now. You gave her space and time to deal with the death in the family, so if she is in a good place- try to go from there.

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