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Does it seem to you that most marriage problems/questions come from?

people concerning themselves far too much with what "should" be rather than what is? Why do people have such a hard realizing that each person is unique, each marriage is unique and any prebuilt conceptions of how it "should" work are ridiculous? Wouldn't we have a lot less questions here if people realized this?

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    10 years ago
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    Yes.

    My psychologist once said that the word "should" has no place in a healthy mindset.

  • Bill C
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    Yup. Even more ridiculous is thinking that the wingnuts on the internet could ever provide sane answers to live changing problems.

    But as I've said many times 'People are stupid'.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Eric,

    I agree, but then here you really do not know what to believe is real or memorex if you get my drift.

    Who would ask serious questions here.

  • 10 years ago

    Maybe, but thats what these pages are for. Not everyone is the same- it takes all kinds- its what makes the world go around :)

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Shhhh! Eric! Shame on you! Don't mess up the question supply!

  • 10 years ago

    Most problems in marriages come from people doing things that they "should" not do even though they "know" it is "wrong".

  • 10 years ago

    Seems to me most M&D questions come from trolls...

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    so what you're saying is - what people SHOULD be doing is asking the right questions.

    and they SHOULD be having the right attitude.

    nice fuckup, Einstein.

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