i get dresses up as a girl for punishment it that normal?

Your mum is subjecting you to 'petticoat punishment.' Much has been written about petticoat punishment in the past, but it is unusual today because the local child welfare authorities would be on the case if they knew about it. You can find a lot of stories about petticoat punishments on Google, but there is always a question of how much is fact and how much is fiction. You said you are now a cross dresser, but I would not use that term for you unless you have reached the point where you like wearing girls' things and look forward to changing into them each day when you get home from school. While forcibly dressing boys in girls things is usually referred to as petticoat 'punishment' there are reported cases where the mum simply wanted a daughter rather than a son and so dressed her son as a girl and encouraged him to become more feminine as time went on. From your description I think your mum may be more in the category of wanting a daughter rather than dressing you as a girl as punishment for your behavior. I am surprised your mum has not had your ears pierced or varnished (polished) your nails yet, or perhaps you just did not mention this.

The closest I ever came to experiencing anything approaching petticoat punishments was almost 60 years ago when I was in grade 6 (ages 11 and 12) in school. A number of boys chewed gum in class, which was not allowed. The teacher had the girls bring in some of their aprons. If a boy was caught chewing gum in class he was required to wear an apron for the rest of the school day. If he got caught in the afternoon he also had to wear the apron the next morning. I did not chew gum, so I never had to wear an apron, but I did see it happen on a frequent basis.

If you want to talk with other boys your age who cross dress I suggest you look into some of the Yahoo groups or you may find some groups listed on Google for teens who cross dress. However, most of the groups are for people who enjoy cross dressing even if they only do it in private.

Ash, your Mommy is sick in the head, but the victim of her sickness is you and I feel very bad this happened to you. Do you have a Dad, or an older sibling who you can confide in? If not, then this will sound a bit corny but now you both need psychological help - go talk to your priest, or minister, or someone who would be bound by the "Confessional Seal". Then you can tell the whole ugly story with absolute assurance that it will remain your secret. From there he will be in a position to open alot of doors for you, and behind those doors will be help, and lot's of it. Nobody will force you to do, or say something against your will, but you MUST unburden yourself and seek guidance from a qualified professional. If this reaches the ears of the legal system, the State is obligated to remove you from her custody, it's just so sad this did not come out sooner, before it actually messed up your head. Mum is very ill and needs to be separated from you. It's possible she could change, but at her age it's unlikely she'll ever beat this fetish/crime. But it is definitely not too late to turn your life around and get you headed in the right direction, YOU CAN BE HELPED!!

This is not a fair, good, or appropriate punishment. You really need to talk to your school counselor. Maybe they can figure out why your mum's doing this to you. It's not right. I don't want to offend you or your mum, but I really don't think that your mum is quite stable. If she had a traumatic event, it could explain a lot, or if she was forced to dress in an odd way when she was a kid, she's probably just passing it down because she thinks it's normal. However, it is not. I would just talk to one of the counselors at school and see how things go from there.

If anything, that would be a reward to me!!!!!!!!! I'd love it if everyday when i came home from school a woman would dress me up in dresses, skirts, tights, women's shoes etc.

Wow dude that is not normal you should talk to the school counseler.

This isn't normal for your mom to do this. It's not an appropriate punishment.

Lucky I had to do chores.