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Are Young Black Men and Black Women Being Influenced to Hate Each Other?
I ask this because I notice that many movies, music videos, and media always feature interracial couples, there are also a large number of users I notice on the Internet and on this site, which claim to be black, then bash and insult each other. I notice that most users who do this tend to be under 25
While there is nothing wrong with dating a variety of people, why the hate between each other?
How can a black man hate on black women when a black woman birthed him and raised him? How can a black girl hate on black men when a black man caused her conception and helped raise her?
Why allow yourself to be influenced like that?
Thoughts and opinions.
@ Consistently: I know that you have numerous accts and that you post that same garbage you spew from all of them. You also just tried to add me as a contact on your other account, which I removed. Keep it up, and I will report you.
@ We Will All Die Next Year: Your answer is another example of exactly what I am talking about. The type of insulting put downs. Thank you for stopping by and proving me right. And no, "GIRLLLLFRAN" is NOT my language.
@ Videll: How are white people being blamed? I didn't even use the word "white" anywhere in my question. There are many black executive producers who are guilty of what I am talking about. This has absolutely nothing to do with blaming white people.
@ Free to Be: Don't you realize you are just as guilty of stereotyping black men as you claim they are? If you date a white or Latin guy who is mean to you are you going to stereotype all of them as well, or is that for black guys only?
Don't be guilty of becoming what you dislike in someone else.
15 Answers
- TashaLv 410 years agoFavorite Answer
I won't be influenced. I'll never dislike my people (blacks). As a matter of fact, I'll never hate anyone who don't make me. There was this man at school that said that people want to keep us divided so that we can become extinct. If they can get blacks to turn on each other, we won't reproduce anymore and plus black men in the hood kill each other just about every day. They're scared because more and more blacks are trying to succeed and think that they're losing power. I don't know how much truth it is to that, but that's what he was talking. It was deep, but I try not to think on negative stuff.
- Anonymous10 years ago
If you target the lion turn him into a domesticated cat he will loose his instinct as a protector of the family if you train the lioness and teach her how to act as a lion. Why do she need the lion around.
Then at the same note if you promote an Addiction or Amy sort in the lion's Clan and teach them how to act like dogs. Then technically theyve become dogs. teach a group that they Are the same as another then they will never agree. To nothing.
If you educate a group or kids that because Your black and this group over here not black even though they are just light skined and you keep telling them their white not black them they will believe this and the argument begin to take shape that your lesser than I.
Impower a child with better programs and take from another with no programs but keep him lower. Give the other child purpose abuse the other yet tell the educated one this other is lazy and you've then created divisions. Of conflicts.
These are historical facts of how black people was turned against each other, only to eradicate the blk communities n families which was the back bone of the American black fsmily, community and nation the black family was to strong for the WHITE RACIST NOTE RACIST not to enclude all white people only a group was this way nit all.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Well.
There is divide and conquer.
But because I know this I do better.
Not everyone takes time out to think about these things or teach them or talk about them with their children as it has been done in my house ever since I was young.
I think the interracial things we see now is an attempt to bring people and tolerance closer and together, but I see this because of my own mind set, positive, hopeful, full of faith that everyone will be color blind.
Its the minds of the people who use the color of the skin as to why they are down that will see this and it could very well make hate with each other. So it is possible but I tell you this, they wont reach me!
I love my dark skin and I like dark skin men even fell in love with a couple but it was the men, not the skin that I love about any man I date. I guess looking in my family all the dark men kinda just makes me notice a lighter guy more and became a preference but like I said before, I dated way more deep dark men in my life and it was good.
There is good and bad in every skin tone, race and nationality.
- Miss BlissLv 410 years ago
Yes, to an extent.
I wouldn't use the word "hate on". I think that's a term a lot of people use when they can't expand their vocabulary. Just because someone doesn't like you or isn't pleased or impressed with you, doesn't automatically mean they're hating on you.
I'm a black girl who is kind of being pulled into reverse stereotyping. I'm aware of it. Most black men have made me feel less desirable and less acceptable because of my looks. The looks of their mothers and ancestors. So, now I strictly date outside of my race. I've realized that, as sad as it is, most guys who appreciate Black beauty are not even black. Why wait around for the black man who is usually brainwashed by media to think I'm beautiful and have an interest in me when the White guy or Latino, or Arab over there is owlin me!!? I probably will not date a black guy unless he's Canadian or British. I don't hate on them, I've just given up on them. Not to mention, a lot of black guys are having a ton of kids very young, conform to stupid stereotypes that decrease the intelligence and self respect of black people, and they just overall suck.
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- 10 years ago
Only online if you ask my, I always hearing all these things about black men and women hating each other, but in real life I really do not see this at all, most black people I see are dating/married to other blacks.
@Consistently- I put down black men? Um the last time I checked the father that i respect and love IS a black man. Stfu, because you seem to be the only insecure one right now. Don't bring up stereotyping when you are doing it yourself.
100% black both my parents are black and still in love after 31 years.
- Anonymous10 years ago
If you are white then you know the answer
if you are black person then you should know that whites have been dividing black people ever since the atlantic slave trade, this isn't new. What is new is the NEW way they are trying to divide us. But they've always tried to dehumanize black men, and put black women on a pedestal. Because they know and fear the power of a black man, mentally and physically. Putting a man over a woman causes division because the man is born to lead and the woman is born to nurture. Reason why i think women have more common sense and men have more book sense
- livLv 45 years ago
The executive 'makes it possible for' this when you consider that we are living in a loose society. Hollywood does it when you consider that so much artists have the morals of best friend cats. Don't get me flawed I love best friend cats, however quite, so much real gifted artists are just a little whacked. Think approximately it, their finest want is to be recognized for pretending to be anybody else. It is rough to mention what 'gratification' younger females are looking for. I believe that youngsters have it so convenient in these days that once lifestyles stresses them they depart. Isn't that what mothers and fathers have taught them. Instead of doing without the colossal condo and the brand new this that or the opposite mother's get jobs and sell off their children in daycare. I might ninety% of running mother's with running husbands would keep house IF they quite desired to. People now watch the TV and films that Hollywood places out so they may be able to believe justified in what they do. There are many individuals, myself incorporated, who've been flat broke in order that they may be able to keep house with there children. We have fortunately grown out of the broke aspect however we cross with out alot of matters so I may also be house. We have ONE TV with best elementary cable. We not often consume out. Drive older automobiles and store at reduction shops. My child at UCLA will inform you going with out a few matters has taught him learn how to survive the cheap and make the fine of the little cash he has. His peers had a a lot more tricky time adjusting. Some of the mothers and fathers at the moment are getting divorced when you consider that they've been so wrapped in saving for Johnny's school they've forgotten what it approach to be married. My husband love me house, the meals, the blank condo, and I have adequate vigor to play within the bed room.
- Anonymous10 years ago
you're right, there was even a user i spoke to on you tube who goes by the name Jaylove47,(i dunno if u heard about him) but he was telling me about the issues that go on in the black american community, such as how there are black male/females who bash their own race and uplift others, its sad because i have met some black american males/females who had these selfhating characteristics, I guess these ppl had some bad experiences dating within their own race and developed a hatred towards their own race.
@Tasha I heard the same thing also but except that black americans will become replaced by multiracial americans due to race mixing. so if blacks continue to have children with nonblacks their negr0/african features will become more diluted. I guess thats why the media trys its best to keep division within the black community.
- Anonymous10 years ago
No, Black people if anything are more loyal to each other than any race, same with Whites.
You want to see hate? Brown people HATE each other, Brown women throw themselves at White men and Brown men throw themselves at White women to move up on their fictional ladder. You Black people are proud as heck when compared to Brown people.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Shhh! ARE YOU INSANE!?
You know we don´t discuss government propaganda except during the underground resistance meetings!!!