How do I make my boyfriend stop his deception?

You can't. Guys who lie don't change. Either accept it or find anew guy.

Sounds like he's an extremely private individual, but his privacy is coming out as lies and deception. Best thing you can do is talk with him about it. It might boil into an argument, but arguments are an excellent way to get things out in the open (if done with a cool head without emotional reaction; obviously, not an easy thing to do.)

If that doesn't work, you're probably better off finding someone else.

A man who lies to everyone is a problem, how could you believe him when he's telling the truth? It's possible that he is using you for your gifts and that is unfortunate. I think it's a good thing that you found out he's a liar and you ask yourself if this relationship is worth being lied to.

If he lies to he's mother and has been with you for a year and she has no clue you exist that's a problem that could mean he doesn't see a future with you or that he doesn't take this relationship seriously.

I do wish you love, no matter what though no matter what you decide to do.

Maybe he hasn't told hes family because they'd go nut that you have kids or something cuz some folk are like that but it still doesn't explain why he's lied to you. As it is I can only give him possible reason for lying to one party but why is he lying to you? For your sake and that of your kids, cut him loose. He isn't trying to get a job, he's living on easy street out of your purse. I'm sorry but you can get better than him. Move on and hold your head high.

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There is no future here. He is lying to all parties and that is never a good thing. All traits point to the fact that he uses people. Confront him and ask him about all of this. See what he says.

Yeah, he is using you for money, plus you are treating him like he is your son. Plus, if you think you are ugly then he must think you are too.

Just make sure your kids are safe you brought a stranger to you house so that means you are dumb and ugly.

I agree with ese. Save the pain and cut him loose.

Short answer-- Find a guy who doesn't lie.