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HUNGRY asked in HealthWomen's Health · 10 years ago

GF says she has NEVER enjoyed sex before..?

We are both 23.. I'm her 2nd partner, she wasn't sexually active for 5 years and we have done it maybe 7 times and says all she feels is pain. Am I doing something wrong? She tells me with her first partner was the same thing. How could I make her get more pleasure from it

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  • 10 years ago
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    Tell her to go see a doctor. She may have vulvodynia.

  • 10 years ago

    It could be sex is still new to her. If thats the case just be really gentle with her and give it time.

    There are some women, however, who cannot enjoy sex. For them it is very painful. Sometimes this is psychological, and other times it is actually a physical problem. If things continue to be painful for her, she will need to see a doctor. There are sex therapists out there who may be able to help too,

  • 10 years ago

    Take her to the gynecologist. If there are no underlying problems, i suggest you play with her for a while beforehand to make sure she's really wet and then f.u.c.k. her really hard. Her hymen might not be broken yet which is probably why it hurts her. After that it should feel really great. The same thing happened to me so I just told my bf not to worry about it and just f.u.c.k. the s.h.i.t. outta me. After a minute or two of excruciating pain it felt so d.a.m.n. good. No problems since then. Good luck :D

    Source(s): experience
  • 10 years ago

    Bring her to doctor or gyno. She might have hormone or any other problems. Doctors know better.

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  • 10 years ago

    you may be too big for her, and shes too tight. or she could have a disease. Tell her to go to the GYN.

    Good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    oral. but braahh just f.u.c.k the s.h.i.t out of her a couple of tiumes, and it will b better after that

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