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Why Would This Asian Guy Stare At Me?
I'm white and there's this new asian guy at school who stares at me all the time. He's from sri lanka and He looks like he's afraid of something and is very scared of doing anything. He gets startled when somebody speaks with him, Even "Hi". And this guy seems to have a special interest in me and I find it very disturbing. What should I do? Should I ask him to stop.. I don't know whether he's gay or anything but he doesn't seem to even think of directly looking at a girl. Why do you think this guy looks at me? He's not very cute and doesn't even have much of a personality and I feel sort of sorry for the poor bastard. Help Plz. Thanks.
10 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
You seem self absorbed and incredibly stuck up, calling someone a 'poor bastard' is not cool! Have you ever thought that maybe he likes you (God only knows why), he may be staring at you as he thinks your pretty or he just wants to make friends with you but hasn't plucked up the courage to talk to you. It is bad enough moving schools but moving countries must be really scary and strange, give him a break and if you take your big head out from your derriere then it might be a nice idea to smile back.
- Anonymous10 years ago
I would go up to him and say "hi". It makes me uncomfortable when you stare. Is there a reason why you are doing it?
He may just be looking for a friend. He might look up to you and is trying to learn the culture. Being the new guy sucks. My parents moved my freshman year so I started High School in a new school and a new state.
Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel?
Source(s): I'm half Asian and half White. For Ted: not all Asians are weird. That is like saying all men from the South are rednecks. (I hate ignorant people) - SchmoolieLv 710 years ago
Maybe you could introduce your self and be friendly. He may simply be mesmerized by your beauty. Whats wrong with trying friendship instead of meanness. He may have an interesting perspective on life because of where he is from which you could benefit from but if you don't try you will never know and you will have missed an opportunity for self-growth.
- ?Lv 44 years ago
once you bypass out searching like felix the cat for sure individuals are going to stare at you. The asian adult males are quite staring because they favor to seize you and performance cat soup.
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- 10 years ago
May be he found something interesting in you..
May be he wants help from you or a friend just like you.
Never call anybody "bastard". Its not nice to ccall anyone like that.
Just great him everyday saying 'Hi'.
Eventually, he'll be free of fear from greatings..
- 10 years ago
He's probably trying to figure out what made you such an ice queen. Take the compliment of someone who is clearly admiring you, sociopath.
- ?Lv 410 years ago
Them Asian people are weird. I know one who would stare at people with a death look in his eyes. He even did it at me once (and I about beat his little chink a**, but he ran). But what I do know is he is interested in you somehow. Usually Asians who are not born here, actually have some sort of problem with socializing and don't know that staring at people is not how we roll. You have an issue with it, bring it up with him. He may not understand, or let alone stop, but it is your best shot at it.