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I know I may sound ignorant but I need help.?

I started a long distance relationship with this girl online. It was on a blog site and we weren't on there looking for a bf/gf. We just started talking and we eventually started dating. A couple days ago (2 months into our long distance relationship) she tells me that all the photos she's been showing of herself to me, weren't actually her. But she tells me that all the things she's told me about herself was true except her name. During our relationship we talked on the phone almost every night, and I'd asked her if we can videochat before but she said she couldn't because she didn't have a webcam and I trusted her so I never bothered her about it. Anyways, the girl she'd pretended to be was a girl I would consider my type. Like the girl of my dreams basically. Not perfect, but she was a girl I would typically go for. The way she actually looks isn't the type of girl I'd typically go for. She's just not what I find all that attractive. She's okay, but I'm not very physically attracted to her. We broke up but I'm still confused on what to do. She wants to remain friends which I'm cool with, but now I feel alone. She made me happy, but now that she looks different I'm not as fond as the relationship as I was before plus I don't trust her at all really. I don't know if what she's telling me is the truth or not. What do you think? Thank you.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    well typically i would say only liking someone for their looks is shallow those looks are still somewhat important. Im more concerned with liking someone that wasnt honest with you in the beginning. Forget her looks, if you cant even trust her telling you what her real name is how can you trust her at all. And why be on a blog acting fake.. to mess with other people. My opinion is forget about it.. long term relationships are hard enough. Add lack of trust and a young relationship.. Nope Its done. Hope this helps. :D

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