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Why does God put certain people threw more heart ache then other?

Have you ever noticed that you may being going threw so much heart ache and pain and suffering and you look at your friends and they have never had to deal with anything like this. Why is it that some people go threw so much more then others? Why cant God spread the heart ache around to everyone not just certain people. I have been hit with SO much stuff lately and its been going on for the past 2 years now, everyday seems like another things happens. Please dont say anything rude or negative I am a very strong Christian but has been threw a lot and just have some questions.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    10 years ago
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    Because you can handle it.

  • 10 years ago

    this is called a test. life is a test. you are being tested. the reason you are going through more "pain" than your friends is because god thinks that you are better than others and wants to test you more so that you can learn more and become the best you can be faster! he wants you to go through these difficulties so that you become a better person! he thinks that now (or 2 years ago) you can take a big test so that you can learn from it a big amount. he just wants the best for you, and is giving you test after test so that you can succeed.

    a curse can be a gift in secret, as someone once said, and i believe him completely

  • 10 years ago

    If you plant a tree and don't water it much and put it in bad dirt, it will not grow good. And it will be plagued with bugs, and disease.

    Is this God's fault then, that the tree didn't grow well, or is it yours?

    Why do people always blame God when things go badly, when they should know that it is the circumstances the people live in that is causing the problems. The Kennedys are rich, and so their children are born into a rich background. But if a Kennedy child left home and went on his own without his parents money, he would put himself into a situation where he had to fend for himself.

    He might get hungry and cold...But is this also God's fault?

    People live in areas where tornadoes are rampant every year and if they get caught up in one, and get hurt or killed, or lose their home, is this also God's fault.?

    God does not get involved in peoples problems, for if He did, we would not learn anything, we would stop working, we would become dependent on Him totally, and become just worthless humans. Why go to school or get a job, or go to college, if God is going to take care of us.? Why have doctors to help heal us, and hospitals, if God is taking care of the wounded and sick?

    We are put on this Earth for a reason, and having God do everything for us is not one of the reasons we are here.

    People who get cancer or diabetes or something else, are usually victims of society. What they eat, where they live, how they live, what they drink , drugs they take, and other things, like what chemicals our factories are making and putting into our air and water...these are the causes of our sickness, Not God.

    Please, don't blame him for our inadequacies.

  • 10 years ago

    not sure why the degree is more than others. I know it's to build character. The only thing I can think of is that God knows you will overcome it with his help- that it's there for a reason. When someone else goes through the same things, you will be a blessing of support and experience. There are also other special reasons that are unknown..

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  • 5 years ago

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    I do not known and I wish I did as I go thru Lots, too. and try not, just try not to get on a God-roll with you about it or you will not notice points to change that He (?) may be putting your way.xxx

    Source(s): oh man, just life!
  • i can't believe you haven't figured it out. there is no god in the first place. if he were real there would be no atheists or islamists, because EVERYONE would be able to feel he's there.

    you can't feel anything when bad things happen to you because it's all up to you to get yourself through. you'll only be complete in yourself when you stop depending on some imaginary friend to "guide" you through sucky days.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Why do people always blame God for what happens in their life?

  • 10 years ago

    maybe its not God...

    but well, u know the story of Job.. he stayed true despite all his calamities.. he withstood them, even when he was on the verge of breaking down

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