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Why would a person do this?

We broke up like 3+ weeks ago. On her terms. She states that she wants to be friends. I was like whatever. Ok. Next day she starts texting me for advice and help for a job interview. Plus, she asks if she could use me as a reference but as her assistant. Being a nice guy I did. Anyways, she gets the job and calls me but she is not too excited until it becomes official. Then later on that week, she meets me for lunch. Again, I am like whatever. Although she did look great.

For 4th of July weekend I went on a vacation to San Diego. Yet, she still calls me and leaves a voicemail. Then sends me an email asking for a favor to buy some things for her on Amazon. She said she would pay me back. Being a nice guy. I followed through with the favor. Later on in the week. She calls me stating that her start date for her new job got pushed back. She sounded kind of sad. Next day her item from Amazon comes in. I dropped it off for her. I figured that would be the last I hear from her. But I gave her a card to congratule her on her new job.

Later that weekend. She texts me again for another favor. Asking me to buy some items for her on eBay and that she wanted to hang out a bit the next day. Again, being too nice I do it. Unfortunately couldn't hang out because I had to fly out of state for a work assignment. During the trip, I just decided to call her and ask her why she is asking for me to do these things. It seems kind of odd. Since, she could do it herself. Also, kind of impersonal the way she would ask. She didn't like the impersonal statement and tried to flip it on me. However, she later calls and apologizes. I bluntly ask her why is she asking me to do these things when she could do it herself. She asks as favor from one friend to another. That she she is sorry for any confusion and that we are just friends. The thing is I am stuck with the items I bought for her. What do I do now?

Update:

I feel like throwing that sh*t away. Some effed up stuff. Stupid me...but wow some people are just cruel.

Update 2:

But I want to tell her off in person. So I have some closure.

Update 3:

Mady there is some truth to that but I am ready to move on. I am already to talking to other girls. I am more than annoyed than anything and I really want to get my two cents in because it will give me piece of mind. I really want to let them know how wrong they were. But I guess I will not be given that opportunity.

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  • 10 years ago
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    Dude, you were used, that **** happens. Learn better next time.

  • 10 years ago

    you properly want to hear that she still likes you but i dont know that so im not going to say that. what i do know is shes not so nice to hide whatever her real intentions are. shes properly using you or she doesnt know how to tell you she likes you. what sucks is you cant even confront her by asking her which is it because you'll make yourself look like a fool. what you could do is stop doing these favors for her.

  • 10 years ago

    Just get yr money and say f*ck off. Simple. Don't reply and just ignore her. There you go, I just made yr life a lot easier in 30 seconds

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Idk

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