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Getting back with her?

bf and gf having a very unhealthy relationship... no trust, jelousy from her part, arguments every day.

Just last night she said she would never get back with me - according to her because i lied to her but it was a misunderstanding that she uses as an excuse to make me feel guilty. SO i lost the last drop of hope that i had to get back with her. Today she tells me she wants to get back with me. Im confused....

Update:

thanks everyone... i agree.

and i told her today that we need time and she said "now or never" ...wtf.

I feel like letting her go... even if it hurts me.

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  • boj
    Lv 7
    10 years ago
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    If the relationship was unhealthy no trust jealousy & arguments every day why would you want to go backto it??? I think you will be better off moving on.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    She is just keeping you around but I don't think she truly wants to be with you. If you get back with her nothing will be different. And why would you want to be in a relationship with no trust, jealousy, and constant arguments? It seems like you need to take a break from talking to her for a few weeks then see how you feel. I bet you will feel differently after having cut off communication.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Theres a quote "set the thing you love free..and if it comes back, it was meant to be." But I dont know if this quote really fits with the situation. Your gf seems very unsure of what she wants. Just wait it out and see what happens.

  • 10 years ago

    Obviously.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Let her go dude youll wind up getting hurt in long run either way it sonds like. Trust me im 33 been there done that.She sounds like she just dont want noone else to have you.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    ITS A MIND GAME!!!!!! IF ITS AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WHY DO YOU WANT HER BACK, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, BECAUSE IT WILL NEVER END, IT WILL ALWAYS BE THE SAME JEALOUS, LIES, EXCUSES, FIGHTS, ITS JUST NOT WORTH IT, U NEED TO BE HAPPY. MOVE ON GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING

    Source(s): ME
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    What is so confusing. Leave the toxic poison alone. Laugh in he face if she suggests it again.

  • 10 years ago

    she doesnt know what she wants

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    you do not need baggage like that.

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