My GF doesnt trust me?

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So, i met this girl on holiday nothing happened(last year) and she happened to working in my town for the last couple of days so i went and said hello. My girlfriend then rang me while i was talking to her and said come back now youve been over there for ages (10mins) so i say ive got to go and go back over.

My girlfriend then says shes going to the toilet wth her m8 and then this girl frm holiday txts me saying so which is your gf? bcus my gf had obviously gone to check up on who i was talking to, so i txt the girl back saying and she text back going i dont thnk she likes me, and i was like no i dnt thnk she does shes in a mood now lol. 

My gf then ask to borrow my phone, she then goes on my texts from this girl( i had nothing to hide) but then text her back without me knowing saying something and then deleted the messages all of them even the ones i sent. I asked my gf about it and she was like i didnt delete them. So i knew she was lying. 

So after this i was pissed of bcus she had lied to me, ad also bcus she obviously doesnt trust me. We had a massive fall out i didnt talk to her all day after this. 

We then make up the next day, i go home and shes text me saying you best delete her off your facebook and your phone!

This made me really angry bcus to me this is just showing thats she is jelous of someone i dont really know and this girl off holiday has a boyfriend and she was working with him when i said hello. this isnt the first time she just generally doesnt like me tlking to girls although most of her friends are lads and i dont cry everytime she talks to a guy.

So what shall i do?  I havnt seen her in 2days now or really spoken bcus i sed we need time apart. Did i do the right thing? and what should i do now?

We have been together for about 5years she is 18 im 20. 
(lots of other issues in past)

? · Accepted Answer

i think you should try not to lose her..she feels that she threatened by any other female around you...maybe she does not feel confident in herself... you need to fix that and make her confident by reassuring her and telling her that you truly love her and that you have lasted for a long time because of that. 
now for the main problem, you should not be talking to other girls since you know that this upsets your bf and might lead to the ruin of your relationship... you can show her that you are also jealous (even if you are going to fake it) and then afterwords you can tell her that just like it is annoying her,it annoys you.

Missjoyful · Answer

Well maybe she is feeling a little insecure try spending more time with her and making her feel like she is the most special girl in the world and reassure her that nothing is going on and you only want her. then tell her if she is still going to jealous then you don't want to be in the relationship with her.
you can't have a relationship with no trust

Steph · Answer

try and talk to her tell her you don't have a problem with her talking to lad so why should she have a problem with you? but i no girls can be defensive and a little jealous its just what girls are like and if shes read your texts to the other girl talking about her im sure its made her a little more insecure you need to let her there is nothing to it and you need to make sure you let her no you don't want her to get jealous you with her nobody else you need to talk to her its just silly not to
 hope everything works out

Calv · Answer

its like all women

Women are control freaks - wear this, do this, do that, sit here, ring me, BLAH BLAH BLAH

All women are good at ordering is a whole damn bunch of cheeseburgers

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