so i was drunk the other night and got angry because?

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i had loaned my ex some money and he was to make a payment every friday till it was paid in full but this past friday he says he cant pay me because he had to fix HIS car which i found out later it wasnt his car it was his GIRLS car. after about a six pack and stewing on this imformation for awhile i called his phone and left him a message basicly telling him i wasnt going to tolerate his paying me short of missing any more payments or i would take him to court . now in a way i dont feel to dumb for calling and leaving that message because i had him sign a contract stating he would pay EVERY friday till it was paid in full but on the other had i feel dumb because i was drunk when i did and now im feeling foolish ? should i or should i just let go of that ?

Update:

i had loaned him 1,000. and he still owes 550. if that matters.

? · Accepted Answer

It all depends on how much money was loaned, but getting angry and calling him with drunken threats doesn't put you in a real classy view so maybe you should just chalk it up to a lesson learned and move on. GL

? · Answer

You should feel foolish.  Acting on any decision you make while drunk (and still being drunk while acting on it) is completely foolish.  You were right in calling him on it, but wrong to do it while drunk, and even more in the wrong to leave a recording of your message.  That could come back to haunt you.

But, it's over and done with.  Nothing you can do about it now.  See what comes of it from your ex, if anything.  Whatever comes, deal with it sober.  You'll make better decisions.  Don't do anything about it unless something comes of your message.

OwlBear · Answer

You may want to follow up and let him know you're serious.

Incidentally, if you take him to court, the court won't make him pay you even if they rule in your favor--all they can do is ruin his credit rating if he doesn't pay.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk to him , tell him u were drunk
But u need the money 2

Theadamsguy · Answer

oh cmon..you guys were in love at some point...if he has paid half of it just pay the rest from your pocket and tell him u did this cuz of love..may be he will come back to u

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