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Am I stupid for this?
I am afraid to have a boyfriend because I don't want to get pregnant and dissappoint my parents like my 3 older female cousins. I haven't had sex before and is waiting until marriage:
10 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
your not stupid for wanting to wait to have sex but that doesn't mean you don't have to have a boyfriend its your decision though
- Anonymous10 years ago
I assume from your question, that you define "boyfriend" to mean someone you have sex with.
There is nothing wrong with you not wanting that.
There really is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend that respects your desire to wait until marriage before having sex, so you really CAN have a boyfriend without having sex.
- Anonymous10 years ago
No of course not actually that's a smart idea but don't be afraid to have a bf if he pressures you into having sex just think about your plan and simply say no don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do
- 10 years ago
If you guys want to do anything just either say no or use protection :P
So NO you are NOT stupid for that. And just because you have a Boyfriend doesn't mean that you'll get Pregnant. :)
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- Working AmericanLv 510 years ago
your not stupid, but if your over 18 your just wasting your life. live for your self
if your under 18 then no your okay.don't have sex and get pregnant and put the burden on your parents to raise ANOTHER baby!
- 10 years ago
no you are not stupid for doing this. it sounds to me that you don't want to ruin your future.but getting a boyfriend that respects you not wanting to have sex wouldnt be a bad idea. this world doesn't have many girls like you anymore, and i personally think your doing the right thing.
- 10 years ago
No ur not stupid ....and for the record u are not obligated to sleep with your boyfriend and if you do, there's birth control...condoms etc just my opinion
Source(s): 26 two kids one baby daddy which is my husband....... - ?Lv 510 years ago
you can have a boyfriend, and not have sex with them, it is possible, if the guy doesn't respect that, then you don't need him