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Am I stupid for this?

I am afraid to have a boyfriend because I don't want to get pregnant and dissappoint my parents like my 3 older female cousins. I haven't had sex before and is waiting until marriage:

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  • 10 years ago
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    your not stupid for wanting to wait to have sex but that doesn't mean you don't have to have a boyfriend its your decision though

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I assume from your question, that you define "boyfriend" to mean someone you have sex with.

    There is nothing wrong with you not wanting that.

    There really is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend that respects your desire to wait until marriage before having sex, so you really CAN have a boyfriend without having sex.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    No of course not actually that's a smart idea but don't be afraid to have a bf if he pressures you into having sex just think about your plan and simply say no don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do

  • 10 years ago

    If you guys want to do anything just either say no or use protection :P

    So NO you are NOT stupid for that. And just because you have a Boyfriend doesn't mean that you'll get Pregnant. :)

    Source(s): Myself
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  • 10 years ago

    your not stupid, but if your over 18 your just wasting your life. live for your self

    if your under 18 then no your okay.don't have sex and get pregnant and put the burden on your parents to raise ANOTHER baby!

  • 10 years ago

    no you are not stupid for doing this. it sounds to me that you don't want to ruin your future.but getting a boyfriend that respects you not wanting to have sex wouldnt be a bad idea. this world doesn't have many girls like you anymore, and i personally think your doing the right thing.

  • 10 years ago

    No ur not stupid ....and for the record u are not obligated to sleep with your boyfriend and if you do, there's birth control...condoms etc just my opinion

    Source(s): 26 two kids one baby daddy which is my husband.......
  • She
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    Yeah. Wait. Go to college and find someone who is educated.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    you can have a boyfriend, and not have sex with them, it is possible, if the guy doesn't respect that, then you don't need him

  • 10 years ago

    No, that's not stupid, it's sensible.

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