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I cheated on my wife yesterday. She had been accusing me for years of doing it.?
I thought it would be appropriate but i just feel like a **** head. If I told her it would destroy her. If I don't tell her it will destroy both of us when she finds out.
we have been separated for over a month not living in the same house. some problems with mutual affection have been part of our problems. also her accusing me non stop everytime shutting me out of the world . she has tons of other mens numbers in her phone. I had to hide friends from my past that i considered close like sisters. she even accused me once of having a thing for her disgusting mother. (we both hate her mother).
i already lost one daughter when i was younger due to a relationship falling apart i don't wanna lose my kids again
this isn't exactly easy to admit i feel dirty as I should. try havin an older wife that makes wants you to be more like a guy she envisions not like YOU. as for the jerk thing. I more than likely am. I wouldn't want to be with me any more than i wanna be ME right now. I made a bad mistake yesterday. Invited the only woman to drop hints of affection my direction in years. And I mixed it with alcohol. Im not an alcoholic and I am still starting an Treatment program. I am aware of my f ups. I don't need to be reminded. What I need to know is. Do i tell her? Do I kiss *** for the rest of my life. I have been supporting this woman for years on my income alone. Its led to financial turmoil and of course the relationship problems associated with money. All while doing this grind everyday I was being accused with any body I talked to. I hung out with a couple buddies at work. I was all of a sudden "banging their girlfriends" it became too much made me want to cheat.
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- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
She is accusing you, because she is cheating..she has tons of other mens numbers in her phone? that speaks volumes right there man.
that sounds exactly like me and my ex wife..notice I said ex wife..she accused me of cheatin for years..well I had enough and figured if I was gonna fight about it..I was gonna do it. I did it..A LOT! we weren't seperated or anything.
Find a way to end that relationship man. Its poison for you, and will drain you..I wasted 10 years of my life with my ex. and I mean WASTED them with her.
- pat zLv 710 years ago
Stop blaming your wife for your lack of integrity. It's time to take responsibility for your part in your marriage -- whether or not your wife is doing the same. Each of you is 100% responsible for your marriage -- promises made should be promises kept.
Separation is also no excuse. Presumably you separated to work out your problems? And you decided to work out yours with a third party. That's really going to help your marriage!
If you care one whit about your marriage, there are professional couples counselors who can help the two of you (yes, you go together) learn how to effectively communicate with each other.
In the meantime, start thinking with your big head instead of letting the other one lead you around.
- Anonymous10 years ago
In this case, it's both your faults. Your fault for cheating with someone, when you already know in your mind that you have a wife. Yeah, I know guys are horny and whatever crap they feel, but still - your the one who married and have responsibilities now. On the other hand, your wife needs to stop accusing you of things that she hasn't even seen with her own two eyes. Yeah, it's annoying and if she keeps it up, chances are, you guys won't last. Who'd want to last a lifetime with a girl who nags, nags, and nags about how you did this and how you did that. It seems like you guys have no basic foundation in one another; meaning, trust and communication. Try sitting down with your wife and talk to her about how you feel and how she should stop shutting herself from you and need to confront her prob. like a wife should. In my case - my husband is the one who runs away from all our prob. and i'm the one who tries so hard to fix them. But, I realized. Relationships aren't perfect. I learned to accept my husbands flaws. I wish you the best of luck.
p.s - don't cheat again.
- 10 years ago
Honestly, stay separated. This sounds like a destructive relationship that you both need out of. Life is not, or should not be something from the Jerry Springer show.
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