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I have a pre existing injury long term I'm 30yrs ol in my wrist . the injury itself was sustained in my teens. 15-16yrs ago and never bothered me til the nature of my job aggregated it 3 yrs ago. My doctor at that time prescribed a wrist splint that I wear everyday only while lifting and working. I was with a different employer at the time and already had fulltime status so this new pain was covered under workmans comp in which I didn't take any time off to deal with. Just temporary lightened load. Yet I even waived that. And worked twice as hard 1 armed. Long story short that job ended and I found new employment under temp to hire status. During my temp probationary period I found this employment to be a great fit. With an amazing boss and crew. I don't want to be anywhere else. it was determined by my new boss that the company felt the same way. This is where it changes.. Less than 2 weeks to go with being a temp. I'm told from my sincere boss. That because of my injury I will never get hired. And that hits me like a ton of bricks. I know he's fighting for me to be there pleading my case for me. I was honest about why I wore it and yet it doesn't inhibit my production and I don't complain about it at work. Its just part of me unfortunately. Is there anything I can do cleanly without lawyers without a crap storm that would taint any reputation or hopes of this place being the place. I work hard everyday it doesn't effect my working hard.

I have done everything to deal with spousal (parenting) issues with my wife. I had managed the finances when we first started dating 2007 til 2011 all on my own she had child and county support i had a full time job. I pay for insurance for the vehicles. I pay for our health care i pay for and maintenance our vehicles on my own can't afford to send the vehicles to the shop. I was forced to learn it. But i did gleefully to keep us financially secure. She hides mail from me. Didnt even inform me that the garbage wasnt going to get paid ..electric was getting shut off and gas was over 550$ behind. Wont talk about finances. I warned her the last 2 times we bounced a check beforehand that we had x amount of dollars and she always exceeds that amount and then when i cautiously approach her..about this gets pissed off at me. Won't allow me to be mad at her she always wins i always give in..

Am i just being a ***** or am i handling this like an adult .. it feels like she walks on me and i forgive her too much when she has the knife to my throat.

I vote one of many of the worst chevy gm patents. can anyone tell me the pro's to that design cause its a pile of crap agreed?

97 blazer 4wd

I would like to leave the ball joints alone it was hell getting those out the first time plus I don't want to tamper with the alignment

it looks like there is plenty of clearance ..

joint is probably shot so im only replacing it

into a closed coolant system and it will mix or dillute by power of the water pump ?

1 year ago i replaced a bad booster, master cylinder, both calipers and rear cylinders (drums)

brake lines in the rear..

now on this vehicle..

The rear passenger tire is locking up only when the brake pedal sticks about midway..

the only way to get it to release is to press the pedal FURTHER down and it pops back up. before i bench bleed a new master cylinder,

is it time to max out the credit cards write a few bad checks and start looting?

There seems to be a disconnect from facts and statistics ... to

Feelings and "handing out goodies" with no reason to believe it will actually be sustainable.

my insomnia has gotten worse and worse..

I know the root of my insomnia and its clearly a bad marriage

being with someone who mistreats me and constantly makes

me walk on egg shells i have decided to stay put for the kids

Before everyone tells me the ill logic with doing that I will tell you

that i remain in this shitty ****** up situation so that my children

are protected from a very irrational emotional loose cannon that

which is my wife. My oldest Step Daughter has seen this inconsistency

that is her mothers mindset and has of course rationally acted out due to

the very unhealthy nature of my wifes narcissism.

Anyways basicially I have due to her and proclaiming my commitment to

my love for her and devotion to her over the years I neglected friendships

and neglected and family to show her insecurities were false. needless to

say I am 5 years paying for insecurities from problems from other men

before me I have had enough

If someone like me (without friends and family) trying to escape a situation

that is clearly a nightmare for everyone and the children involved now.

Do I risk it all by ending this misery with a divorce fully knowing that

things will never get better..

And how do I leave my kids in the hands of a woman that is by all

means a endangerment to their sanity and try to end the cycle that was

passed down to her from happening to my kids.

I am just a rational person on the edge trying to solve a huge problem

that takes several rational people to solve in most case while having a

destructive person continue to make it impossible to actually solve.

I thought it would be appropriate but i just feel like a **** head. If I told her it would destroy her. If I don't tell her it will destroy both of us when she finds out.

once again trying to change history and claim obama is a conservative and a centurist. and a republican in democrat's clothing.

libs please be honest.

Cons please post facts not opinions

I had suggested it to my wife (now separated) many times in the past. She always told other people that it was me who was unwilling to do it. She treats me like a child so I act the part. Yes it is childish but it had been getting me by for a long time. She has had a job for a total of 1 month in the last 4 yrs we have been together. And never once had I came in the house when I got home from my job that I have had for 4+yrs and nitpicked about everything that wasn't done. She does that to me and I get somewhat pissed. She expects me to work 40+ hrs a week and do all the housecleaning. And of course her idea of fun is talking on the phone and getting involved in drama with everyone. She even puts her friends and family (extended). Before me or US. I got sick of it. Have been holding all this in for a long time. I couldn't even talk to her about any of this without her getting defensive and getting mad. After our screaming match the day before yesterday. She even called my mother to pick me up. She is older than me by 3 years.

I have caught her in lies that when she lied to me again when I pointed it out. I doubt she has ever told me the truth. For Ex: I asked her if her and her friend Kevin ever dated (I wouldn't have cared).

She had told me when we were first dating that she wanted to date him and he chose another girl.

But on her facebook. When my wife was badmouthing me she said something under the lines of. "I dont get people. Throw me away and you will miss me" and he replied "I know I lost you once and I regret it everyday". Its been so many things like that.

And i have never made an issue out if it. And never brought it up in a fight. I don't dwell.

But our fights consist of her calling me names. And me defending myself which according to her is

"attacking her verbally". If you read this whole thing thank you. For the rest that don't .. I don't blame you. I am just venting. Wife was like a part of me. And I don't want her to be if it sounds like this cycle will never end.

Trivia questions such as his entire background not necessary. INCLUDING BC.

I want his view points.

And things he has himself said.

His voting record on things.

I am willing to be more Republicans know their president better then Democrats know theirs.

Besides what you have heard from either side?

Use some simple basic common sense.

Take a deep breath..

Balancing a checkbook.. Paying off a credit card bill.. Maxing out your credit.. and asking for higher limit. Of course you have more than enough money coming in each month to make the payments. And to still buy your corvette you wanted. So.. Why are we talking about raising it?