Why is it so hard to be loved?

It can be hard for so many reason, but none of them simple, sometimes the most difficult thing to do is love, because of fear, fear or rejection etc.

She's gone off the boil and is overly-settled, after this long.

My male friend had this issue.....she went cold on him after 11 years, and they spent the next 2 years barely talking. In that time he had an affair and ultimately decided to divorce her. He now has a new lease of life...says it's the best thing he ever did. This is all because she was unwilling to make an effort and nagged and screeched at him all the time.

It's the saddest sight to see a man gradually reduced to nothing because his wife won't show him any affection.

Have you exhausted all efforts on this marriage? have you gone to counseling? have you tried being romantic or simply expressing how you feel to her? If you have, then i suggest its time you think about ending the marriage or at least separating. I feel sorry for you because despite some of your obnoxious questions, i can tell that this is truly an issue for you and your wife. No body deserves to go through life being unloved or ignored. you are entitled to happiness.

She's only 15!?!

Why don't you show her how it's done. She might feel embarrassed. For more advice check out my

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Because she doesnt love you.

Why is it so hard to understand?

Look in the mirror. I suspect you are unlovable/not easy to love....