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vondahl asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 10 years ago

Would it be inappropriate to mention that I found a ring?

My fiance is going to be leaving for the Navy at the end of October. We informally decided to get married sometime (probably within a year) and therefore informally decided that we're engaged now. So there was no ring or actual proposal - he said he would "propose" to me later on when he had a ring.

Anyway, we were in his room and I went to look for chapstick. He keeps it on one of the shelves in his closet. Sometimes it gets pushed under a stack of shirts, so I lifted up his shirts and I found a really pretty engagement ring/wedding band set (it wasn't in a box). I didn't say anything to him. I'm really happy and excited, but at the same time I feel like a kid who found their Christmas presents! I want to wear the ring now, but I don't want to ruin any plans he had.

Should I say something to him? Or should I just pretend I didn't accidentally find it and then wait for him to give it to me?

Update:

Thanks guys! I think I'll wait :)

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Agree with the others, wait for him to actually propose. Think about the nerves he is going through as well as your own nerves. He is about to propose to the love of his live, so let him have this moment!

    Congratulations!

  • dolce
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    Don't ruin the surprise! For now, forget what it looked like and be happy as you wait for him to give it to you :) Congratulations!

  • ?
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    That's a hard one. I wonder if he meant for you to see it but then if he didn't, you risk ruining the surprise he had for you. I guess if he wasn't acting funny or anything, then maybe he didn't mean for you to see it.

    Good luck to both of you whenever the day comes.

  • 10 years ago

    Wait for him to give it to you...

    The same evening he gave it to you, when ur in bed, you tell him u have a confession to make and that you found the ring earlier :)

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  • Grin
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Do not tell him!!!! Wait it will be worth the wait.

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