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Is this normal for a 12 year old?? I'm very worried please give me answers!!?

My son is dating, he says I love you to his girlfriend & he has a lot of feelings for het at such a young age. Hes already had his first kiss and he kisses his girlfriend all the time. Also, do you think i should trust him?? He loves this girl & he kisses her soo much. I'm a little worried they'll step up there game & have sex.... We leave them home alone.... Do u think they've had sex & is it normal for a 12 year old to date??

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  • 10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well your kicker is leaving them hone alone stop it. And keep an eye on them a bit. Theyre growing up and experiencing new stuff. Especielly as guys

    Source(s): Puberty!
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    In my opinion I think 12 is too young to date... way too young, especially to be left home alone with a girl. I wouldn't doubt that they are experimenting with sex or other things. Your the parent you should be the responsible one and stop things before they go to far or move to fast. If you think it's okay for him to date then so be it, but you should be keeping an eye on them and definitely not leaving them home alone unattended. That's just pure ignorance.

  • 10 years ago

    It all depends on the kid. Some kid will kiss a girl and be satisfied with that and other boys want more but he may not even know that much about sex yet. Which means you need to start talking to him about it and protection because you rather be safe than sorry and its really irresponsible to leave two 12 year olds alone. Your worried about them moving to fast but you aren't there to monitor them..

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Im 12 years old and i have a bf and i love him and i still do. i have kissed him but thats all. I dont know if they have had sex if i were you i would not leave them home alone. it is very normal for 12 year olds to date.

    Source(s): Myself
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  • 10 years ago

    Dude! DONT leave them home alone! without proper education they could experiment which could lead to sex. they are too young to be dating in the first place, and a 12 year old doesnt know the true meaning of love i can tell you that for sure.

  • Candie
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    That's just wayyyy to young!! He shouldn't be kissing girls on the lips at 12!!! That's just too young! He should start kissing at 16! Other than that he can start dating at 13 I guess, but no u shouldn't let him date at that age it's just wrong

  • 10 years ago

    As a 13 year old, I've 'dated' before. I've found it doesn't last. Just make sure he knows sex ed, no matter how uncomfortable it might be. You're a parent, you can threaten a bit. My mom does it all the time. You should be worried though, you're a parent. I'd just be careful and make sure he knows. :)

    Source(s): Me
  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    regrettably, it style of feels prevalent for them to act that way. whether that is not any longer ok. i think of they are in basic terms attempting to get interest from whoever will supply it to them. At their age, or perhaps 5 years older, human beings don't be attentive to what they somewhat need. Their hormones are going loopy, their recommendations isn't stepped forward in the call making branch and each style of rigidity from society is going on. for my section, I hate smoking. My dad he has had 3 heart assaults and nevertheless smokes. Cigarette smoke irritates my lungs and its complicated for me to respire. it is not significant whether it somewhat is an dependancy or in basic terms a foul habit. Smoking isn't a reliable subject. i'm so happy you're apprehensive approximately them. It shows how mature you're. according to danger their parents have not talked to them approximately intercourse or smoking or in spite of the fact that. according to danger their parents have and the girls are in basic terms defying the guidelines. enable some grownup be attentive to roughly your subject, like a instructor or college counselor. by potential of ways, in case your parents locate out approximately what your friends are as much as, they could no longer enable you notice them any greater.

  • 10 years ago

    Yeah, this sounds pretty normal to me. But I wouldn't leave them home alone, I'll give 'em the benefit of the doubt and say they haven't done it yet.

  • 10 years ago

    im 13 and I think its okayy for him to date because hes gonna find out sooner or later and its like if he dates now he would know wat he wants in a girl in the future just talk to him bout sex and give him a purity ring for boys or something and talk to his girlfriends parents hopefully this will help u :)

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