why do i lose my sex drive after i ejaculate?

Firstly, age and penis size have nothing do with losing your sex drive after orgasm. But thanks for sharing.

When men achieve orgasm what happens is our bodies shut down our sexual function in what is commonly called a refractory period. Some men experience this differently. Some can still maintain an erection and even keep having sex. But all men, regardless of what they individually experience, lose the ability to ejaculate a second time right after they did once already.

This refractory period lasts anywhere from a few minutes to an hour. And this is where age does matter because the older you are, the longer this refractory period tends to last. When you ejaculate your body releases feel good hormones that can make you feel relaxed or sleepy.

All that is normal.

As far as lasting longer - dude entire books are written over this. Basic tips: Have lots and lots of sex. The more you have, the more used to it you will become and easier it will be to last longer. You can also try the stop and go method where you have sex to just before where you feel like you're going to orgasm and then back off from sex - even completely pull out if you have to. You can still make out, cuddle, go down on your partner so sex doesn't stop, just the intercourse. And just long enough for you to calm down again and have more sex.

More advanced techniques involve you paying attention to your breathing, heart rate and muscle contractions around your pelvic region. If you have the self awareness to control these things, you can learn to last as long as you want. Knowing this, if you have lots more sex, it should become easier to last longer.

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The fact that the drive goes away after is natural, although I've always overcome that myself (no pun intended) but that doesn't mean I just *** and keep going, well I guess sometimes I have. But it is natural to feel a "down" period afterwards. Most of the time I just think of it as a satisfied feeling, although sometimes it goes away very quick for me and there's a second or even third timer.

Far as cumming too quickly, this again other than when i was young in my teens I've never really had a problem with and was just simple arithmetic. If you go too fast you are going to *** fast. So a steady rhythm or changing things up a bit to help so you don't *** to fast is sometimes needed. Also largely it's a mental thing. Being you are all excited & such your body and mind's natural desire is to *** as quick as possible, so mentally you have to get disciplined or trick your mind a little bit, and physically you have to get used to the feelings of when you get close and exercise certain muscles or slow down to prevent yourself from cumming. Do a lot of googling and you'll get there.

Main thing is (and this is more of a personal opinion honestly) is I've always thought about it like this... Please the lady and not yourself. If you really think about this, I mean really think about it, it works and in the end you do end up pleasing yourself as well and best of all you leave her with a feeling of wanting it again. What I mean by this is if you *** to fast when you are inside her, well then try going down on her and bringing her an orgasm this way, if when you jump on and go for a ride if you *** to fast at least you've still pleased her, but again also try to investigate & concentrate on the mental aspect of discipline and controlling yourself so you can last longer

1. males are programmed to spurt only once. their bodies then need a

recovery time in which to make more sperm and be ready for the next

round. this can take anywhere from 15 minutes to a couple of hours.

2. one way to last longer is to jerk off ALMOST to the point of no return,

then stop and let the feeling go away. repeat this as often as you can

until you can't hold back any longer. you will gradually be able to lengthen

your stimulation time before spurting.

3. if you are gonna have real sex, jack off about an hour before.

you should be wearing a condom anyway, so wear a thick one,

or even two normal ones.

hope all of this helps.

100 drops of blood is equal to a drop of sperm, imagine how much of blood is lost with the quantity of semen spurted, so stop jerking off, it is only work if you are having an intercourse. that's the reason why men feel fatigue after ejaculation. that is another reason why spiritual gurus do not ejaculate or masturbate because by doing so they loose energy. spiritual science is cool

Could it be everything is just too rushed.

Try slowing everything down. Spend at least an hour on foreplay before you get to intercourse. You may still come fast, but the whole experience will be more satisfying to you and most definitely to her.

If you start fast and finish fast she is not climaxing. If she is not climaxing the sex is BAD.

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This is normal for all men. How tired are you when you begin, and is it late nite? Try it earlier, and then do something else, then try it again. Should be fine!

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I lose interest as well, but i always make sure my partner is satisfied before i get any where near that. Loads of fore play, oral, etc.

Then don't ejaculate, hold it in.