Guys: Whats the reason you wouldn't like a girl?

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I've known this guy for a while. He's totally distant. Barely speaks to me. And when I start to initiate conversation with him he pretty much ignored me until I tapped him and asked again then all he replied with was a head shake (I said 'you guys still played really well tonight') - but they lost.

I've added a few others that are in the same team that I now watch but he has not accepted my friend request. Like seriously WTF! I have done nothing to him! I am pretty attractive, nice size chest, face, hips...others have expressed interest in me but I like him..prolly becuase i cant have him *sigh*

WTF is his problem? I have given him NO indication that I like him so theres no reason to avoid me! The only thing that may have affected his judgement is when he said that when you sweat you lose weight and some other guy said no thats not true & I said 'yeah doesn't that just cause water loss?' THATS it! Hes quiet, wants to lose weight (guessing low self-esteem) is terribly moody - from what i've seen but I still like him.. No one knows, but I just don't get why this guy cant even talk to me so I can get to know if I really like him or not! Grrr haha

I am Schnitz · Accepted Answer

You've given him NO indication that you like him?

Well of COURSE he doesn't talk with you a lot. We need some sort of inclination before we start approaching girls. Say hi, make a bit of small talk, be friendly. Hell, just a stare, a nice smile, or a few looks will do. Very few guys will start approaching girls based on nothing.

Dean Ambrose · Answer

General I find some girls and guys boring and shallow. In my opinion he's either playing on a "get the girl if I ignore her" or I don't wanna talk leave me the h alone b. Ask him out see his reaction if its a calm no then number 2 if it's a calm yes its definitely number 1

Just Loving It. · Answer

Maybe he has social anxiety and really fancy you but don't feel comfortable. Stop being so desperate and demanding without him knowing. Next time, ask about his interests. Also, he might have a gf that could be why he is not interested in you with all your assets.

Aussiegal · Answer

It sounds as though you KNOW this guy is an ar5ehole and is not paying any attention to you. You don't really like him, it's the thrill of the chase. Annoyingly fun to analyse, but don't really put that effort in. His a boring sod really, not as mysterious as you think.

? · Answer

sorry you can hint all you like he is not interested ---- as to why??? i could not say why he is not interested ----- for me i dont think we could have a conversation and you seem far too preoccupied with how you look rather than what you are like as a person ---- sometimes there is no spark between two people and you cant make it happen ---- all you can do is accept it and move on

Polymerase · Answer

you need to ask him, you know. Not every guy is searching or trying to find an attractive girl. If you like him, pursue him.

Umair Usman · Answer

I don't know whether he is interested in you or not I'm... :)

The answer is that he may be in love with other girl. So, find other one. Don't spoil you time on him. He may not your true love.

jonathan j · Answer

........why is it women want what they can't have while I bet some good looking guy probably drools over oyu daily and you ignore him or throw him into the friend box? *sigh* Women.....

Anonymous · Answer

well, give him some hints and see whether he likes you or not. if not move on

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Guys: Whats the reason you wouldn't like a girl?

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